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| 2022-Jan-23 |
Ready is a choice, it not worth waiting for. |
https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/gaming/Ready_is_a_choice_its_not_worth_waiting_for.mp3 |
(I just realized I published this
episode to my other podcast, Psychology & Cyber thus just uploading it
here as a copy. Sorry for the delay and mistake on my side). .
Ready is a choice, it not worth waiting for.. . Do
you regularly invest time with people who:.
* claim ready enough for action even while uncertain?. * do work that matter for them
regularly?. * Dare find out if those
they seek to serve care about having that work done?`. .
What does Ready mean to you? often we forget to ask this critical
question.. * when its ready - will you
see it or find another thing to polish?.
* out of time DOES NOT mean ready, yet often thats where we end up
without intention. * Are you ready to
listen to feedback?. * is the person
you’re talking to ready to listen?. *
if all you want to do is tell others of facts they can loop up facts if they
cared, if they dont care you're not ready to help them. * life is short, we all will die. You're
already self-employed for life AND other things in-between that. When will be
you be ready to act like it?. * is
ready for those its for, or for you?.
Whats worth being ready for?.
Whats worth saying no to so you can be ready for it?. So whats stopping you? Go Get it for those
that care. . Often Ready means too late. What would some
early real life, real customer feedback mean for your work?. |
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| 2022-Jan-23 |
Remarkable Position and easy to say name change |
https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/gaming/Remarkable_Position_eventual_rename.mp3 |
Remarkable Position and easy to say
name change. . It's been 8 years already with Relationship
Power at work. Every week. Some of the early years it was more often.. Before that this pod was called
"Levelup at work and ingame"..
That's why the libsyn url is called gaming even if all those episodes
are lost now due to my own newbie mistakes with an RSS feed change.. I've been wondering if we should rename
this thing to Results & Relationship. What do you think oh most splendid
of listener?. When I started our pod
was primarily for computer leaders using the words direct, Relationship Power
and such.. To figure out untrained
empathy and relationships skills. Combined their already powerful data
mojo. . I myself hid behind
computers for the longest time. That made me powerful in a lot of aspects and
fearful in my many untrained areas..
Over the years I observed others, and myself struggle saying the
phrase "Relationship Power at work". .
Thus the intention with the name change is to making it easier to name
this thing of ours. Its nothing bigger or more complicated than that. I'm
sharing the process to help you see. Whatever you make it will also change as
you learn more about it and those you serve. Getting started early embracing
reality instead of staying in your head is critical. Im hoping sharing what I
missed from starting helps unlock you. Free you to give whatever is rattling
in your head a try.. . Why Results first in the name?. .
I love that anyone can intentionally create results based on where
they start in life. Independent where we currently are. Independent of what
we where given we can all work on figuring out what we can give, create or
teach.. its a lottery what
relationship we get to start life with. its a choice what results we work
hard and long for and what company we keep..
I love that results is an open way to healthy long-lasting
relationships. You cant control relationships and the opening of doors. Yet
you can control what you create and invest emotional labor into, and for
whom's benefit.. Your reputation
precedes you. Its nothing new but more urgent than ever with the ever-present
machine learning.. Soon your results
will be auto-presented in front of any person you meet via their AR devices.
Of whoever you meet in real life by default. Even so before you get to chance
to meet.. Your results is one of the
most Key factors setting the options for who you get to build relationships
with.. Its surely not the most
important thing. Love, care & relationships are. Yet without results is
hard to get the freedom to sustain that dream of yours and the dreams of
those you care about.. Results. Done
well and generous are also something others feel good about remarking on.
Good for their own benefit (self image, status and possibilities) as well
that remark benefitting their friend and you.. |
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| 2022-Jan-09 |
Owning your choice of context, your patterns and positions |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/owning-your-choice-of-context-your-patterns-and-positions |
Owning your choice of context, your
patterns and positions from which to serve..
Are you owning your choice of context?. Do you position yourself with people and
situations that are likely to help others long-term and effectively?. Are you diving into your context to find
the context within the context of what truly matter to those you seek to
serve?. |
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| 2022-Jan-01 |
Understanding Context |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/understanding-context |
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| 2021-Dec-25 |
Ego, drivers seat & influence outcomes |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/ego-drivers-seat-influence-outcomes |
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| 2021-Dec-18 |
What do you rhyme with? |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/what-do-you-rhyme-with |
What do you rhyme with?. What does your work ryme with?. What does your relationship ryme
with?. Whats your future ryme with?. We live in a time where most want to
"Predict the next big wave", "find The Key that unlocks it
all" or that "The golden segment to distript industries".
Chasing that dream of exponential growth..
Believing we see it everywhere. Not seeing the infinite amount of
tries between the dots of success..
For most of us this results in a cost of delay, in procrastination
lost in a waiting game. Doing something every day that you learn from is the
most common story of those that have made it.. Doing consistantly that work that helps you
connect to those you want to help is the best way to learn what matter.. Waiting for to catch that "wave that
is worth it" often means when it comes we are not ready to harness it.
Embrace the small wins, the opportunityo to train that skill, to listen and
learn to see.. What do you ryme with?
Often it helps me think of predictions like spirals or repeat cycles. Instead
of trying to predict exacly what the future looks like its often more helpful
to se the pace of small levelups around you..
And surround yourself with others dancing to that rythm instead of
lost playing the waiting for a worthy wave game.. Surround yourself with people that
appreciate that you try to daily show up for what you believe in. To make a
differerence for that next ryme. People who will happily let you borrow their
work and learnings for that next experiment. People believing your effort
will help you all versus being in a competition.. |
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| 2021-Dec-12 |
Do you see its many sides and shapes? |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/do-you-see-its-many-sides-and-shapes |
Do you see its many sides and
shapes?. There is always many sides
and shapes to everything that matter..
Some sharper than others. Few see the world exactly like you do.. How many of the worldviews of those you
serve can you hold higher than your own when needed?. . Do
you intentionally make space to stay off the beaten path in a few select
areas over a longer time?. Do you
intentionally surround yourself with people who are happy to accept that on
the edge there isnt a one clear metric to rule them all?. Do you intentionally gather people who get
energy, rest and clarity from being together?. Book recommendations in this cast:. * <a href="https://coldstart.com">Cold
Start problem</a> and the double-edged sword of network effect. A book
that came out today so I havent fully read it yet. . *
<a title="This is marketing"
href="https://seths.blog/TIM">This is marketing</a> - a
book I'v read multiple times and I still learn something every time.. |
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| 2021-Dec-05 |
Uncanny Sight: You saw something inside me that I didnt see until years
later yet I wasnt ready when you named it and that made me nervous |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/uncanny-sight-you-saw-something-inside-me-that-i-didnt-see-until-years-later-yet-i-wasnt-ready-when-you-named-it-and-that-made-me-nervous |
<strong>Uncanny
Sight</strong>: You saw something inside me that I didnt see until
years later yet I wasnt ready when you named it and that made me
nervous. . . Are you making people uncomfortable with
what you see or does your lended sights give them freedom, energy or clarity
to act for their own benefit?.
Sometimes the people around you are not ready to connect to what you want
to connect on.. How can you learn to
see that early?. If you want to help
make change happen you must meet people where they are right now.. not where you know they will be
eventually.. Often that means you need
to go first. To show trust by creating space for them first.. To listen for what happens or dont happen
and if needed just move on. Or in other times lean in, staying with the
tension longer for THEIR benefit. At other time its the exact that behaviour
that makes them too uncomfortable. Easy to see in retrospect and the long
game.. Really hard in the
moment.. Are you paying attention to
the recipient of what you see right now?.
What you might call kind clarity might be perceived as way to much
tension for me.. Likewise though. A
few years later it might be exactly those very word you get thanked
for.. [. I was also having a deep cold recording
this. I hope it was bearable to listen to despite that. ]. |
|
| 2021-Nov-28 |
Relentless tests: Lessons and gifts are optional |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/relentless-tests-lessons-and-gifts-are-optional |
Relentless tests. Lessons and gifts
are optional.. Relentless tests. Every
second of your life, business & relationships.. Question is though. Are you taking the
lessons that matter and letting go what doesnt belong so you learn between
tests?. Are you accepting the gifts
that helps both you and their giver, and letting the ones go that dont? Even
if they are from yourself, fully formed, shiny and polished with hardwon sunc
costs?. . When you grew up. School gave you lessons,
then you take the test.. And you
though that was the "fair" order it was supposed to be done
at.. I believe that by embracing
reality you see we are all given neverending tests and its very very optional
if anyone will take the lesson. Less easy is to see its the same with gifts
from your former self to yourself. What got you here wont get you there. Let
go of that raft and habits that protected you so far so you can form new one
that serves you better where you want to go from here.. Instead of seeing goals and the long
journey there. Embrace the hard obstacles right here right now. Help others
move their for them, learning for yourself while doing it.. Instead of longing for a smooth journey
towards the goal. Embrace that the "deeper downs" will teach you
better & faster. So so how can you weave in rest time so you can go deep
on a hard problem when helpful? You level up faster in positions like that
versus the dream you have of smooth sailing.
That position is a choice. That emotional labor is a choice.. if whater you are feeling right now isnt
what you want. Whats the lesson? Whats the gift from your former past, the
company you keep. what are you carrying that you can lay down in favor of
helping to carry something else?.
. Sensortoipia. Metaverse.
Data. machine learning. Fast pace of our world... Makes it hard to see the
lesson longterm to say privacy yet you can still think about it right
now.. Who am I teaching right now?. its so hard to missread reality thru the
lens of the past.. Its so easy to be
blinded by the shiny object or goal in the future.. Who am I teaching right now? Take a breath
and ask yourself this six times centering on just one of the word each time
you ask it.. You just might see
reality better.. . You are being tested all the time. Dont be
unprepared. Dont autoaccept whats given..
Whats worth that extra care?.
Who are worthy of that extra effort again and again?. |
|
| 2021-Nov-21 |
Dare to Ask with Özlem Özkan & learning together with communities |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/dare-to-ask-with-zlem-zkan-learning-together-with-communities |
<strong>About this
eposide:</strong>. I'm glad to
introduce you to Özlem, our first guest in perhaps 6 years or something of
weekly shipping.. Since the 1990ths I
have always created a few cyber communities where we have learned together.
(On whatever voice platform made it most easy at the time). Almost every day I'd join a live voice
channel in a joint venture within a game the group as a whole would be
playing.. This created a space where
so many different age-groups, professions and walks of life met. Often and
recurring working together creates remarkable spaces. One where we know during
our day we have this "other" place where we can questions. Learn
from others experiences or share when we feel vulnerable. On any topic from
Life, business or anything.. I thus
jumped into AltMBA number 4. Knowing already at #1 it was for me but I feared
I wasnt worthy enough to be there so took a while before I dared. I have
since been part of 30 akimbo workshops and a remarkable coach in a few.
Because I believe in learning together. Helping each other see better
together. Feel seen for what matters. So when my friend Özlem started her
course on Maven.com A platform where I've also been part of a few great
community based courses I thought we should talk about whats inside her
creation for your benefit..
<strong>About your guest:</strong>. Özlem Özkan is an author, podcaster,
teacher and coach. She tells us more about how she got Seth Godin on her
show, went from homeless to living in a monument, and how every NO brought
her closer to the YES.. Özlem was
invited to be an instructor with Maven, a new cohort-based course platform
founded by the co-founder of Udemy and the co-founder of altMBA. She is now
teaching the cohort-based-course DARE TO ASK at Maven.. To attend her free workshop go to
https://lu.ma/ooj6zmcs. Check out DARE
TO ASK on https://maven.com/bridging-workshops/dare-to-ask?custom=true. Özlem’s Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/ozlemozkan/.
Özlem’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ozkanozlem/?hl=en. |
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| 2021-Nov-14 |
The Bucket stops here - perhaps you shouldn't carry or pass it onwards
it? |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/the-bucket-stops-here-perhaps-you-shouldnt-carry-or-pass-it-onwards-it |
|
| 2021-Nov-04 |
Creating Community & ready is too late |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/creating-community-ready-is-too-late |
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| 2021-Oct-31 |
Discipline & Belonging |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/discipline-belonging |
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| 2021-Oct-23 |
Creativity, Fear & Play |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/creativity-fear-play |
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| 2021-Oct-17 |
Intentional actions, afterthoughts and making a choice |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/intentional-actions-afterthoughts-and-making-a-choice |
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| 2021-Oct-09 |
Learn on the job and earning trust with yourself and others to get to do
that recurringly |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/learn-on-the-job-and-earning-trust-with-yourself-and-others-to-get-to-do-that-recurringly |
|
| 2021-Oct-03 |
Making space for Gratitude |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/making-space-for-gratitude |
|
| 2021-Sep-26 |
The power of dis-engaging early by moving on - and letting others move on |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/the-power-of-dis-engaging-early-by-moving-on-and-letting-others-move-on |
|
| 2021-Sep-19 |
The Choice to be Curious, Open and Kind |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/the-choice-to-be-curious-open-and-kind |
|
| 2021-Sep-12 |
Passion & Flow |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/passion-flow |
|
| 2021-Sep-04 |
Urgency & Illusions |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/urgency-illusions |
|
| 2021-Aug-28 |
Asking for to be mentored? what what have you done and learned so far,
small or big doesnt matter |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/asking-for-to-be-mentored-what-what-have-you-done-and-learned-so-far-small-or-big-doesnt-matter |
|
| 2021-Aug-21 |
Age of Dis-information & IT Dept Tax Collectors of cybersec breaches,
GDPR fines, ransomware |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/age-of-dis-information-it-dept-tax-collectors-of-cybersec-breaches-gdpr-fines-ransomware |
|
| 2021-Aug-15 |
Alternative Costs on your Career Capital |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/alternative-costs-on-your-career-capital |
|
| 2021-Aug-01 |
Take the stakes down, State of Play, min-ship removing yourself from the
equation |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/take-the-stakes-down-state-of-play-min-ship-removing-yourself-from-the-equation |
|
| 2021-Jul-31 |
Trust: Your reputation, body of work and behaviour precedes you. Dont
kill it hiding behind transparency |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/trust-your-reputation-body-of-work-and-behaviour-precedes-you-dont-kill-it-hiding-behind-transparency |
|
| 2021-Jul-25 |
Embracing where you are and heading: Leadership is that your intent is
felt all the way to everyone including embracing your own inner game |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/embracing-where-you-are-and-heading-leadership-is-that-your-intent-is-felt-all-the-way-to-everyone-including-embracing-your-own-inner-game |
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| 2021-Jul-16 |
Timeshifts - yours and others |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/timeshifts-yours-and-others |
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| 2021-Jul-11 |
Circle upon Circle towards levelup and better clients and feeling at home |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/circle-upon-circle-towards-levelup-and-better-clients-and-feeling-at-home-0 |
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| 2021-Jul-04 |
Ambition, Effort-level and striving to connect them |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/ambition-effort-level-and-striving-to-connect-them |
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| 2021-Jun-26 |
Rest, Vacation-mode and listening |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/rest-vacation-mode-and-listening |
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| 2021-Jun-20 |
Time, Relationships, Energy & Outcome |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/time-relationships-energy-outcome |
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| 2021-Jun-13 |
Find yourself - Find your others |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/find-yourself-find-your-others |
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| 2021-Jun-05 |
convenience & levelup |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/convenience-levelup |
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| 2021-May-30 |
Following signs of convenience in the Hive Computer |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/following-signs-of-convenience-in-the-hive-computer |
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| 2021-May-23 |
Resilience, Fragile and what work to level up (why generous work levels
you up better) |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/resilience-fragile-and-what-work-to-level-up-why-generous-work-levels-you-up-better |
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| 2021-May-16 |
Discipline wanes during the day |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/discipline-wanes-during-the-day |
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| 2021-May-09 |
What do you see beyond what others measure - Walking away from compromise |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/what-do-you-see-beyond-what-others-measure-walking-away-from-compromise |
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| 2021-May-03 |
Asking Questions Stay Open For what we dont know |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/asking-questions-stay-open-for-what-we-dont-know |
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| 2021-Apr-24 |
its not yours - long digital deep dive |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/its-not-yours-long-digital-deep-dive |
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| 2021-Apr-18 |
What you DO becomes better and easier KPIs and axis for better |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/what-you-do-becomes-better-and-easier-kpis-and-axis-for-better |
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| 2021-Apr-11 |
What am I stalling because I'm afraid - You have more power in your now
than you CAN know |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/what-am-i-stalling-because-im-afraid-you-have-more-power-in-your-now-than-you-can-know |
|
| 2021-Apr-04 |
its not yours - so whats really worth it (retry sorry I messed up the
intro) |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/its-not-yours-so-whats-really-worth-it-retry-sorry-i-messed-up-the-intro |
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| 2021-Mar-28 |
Metric, Uncertainty & Real Results |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/metric-uncertainty-real-results |
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| 2021-Mar-21 |
Virtual Backgrounds, Digital relationship building & Distributed
office |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/virtual-backgrounds-digital-relationship-building-distributed-office |
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| 2021-Mar-13 |
Distributed Work, A Gallery View Thumbnail & What Work Matters |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/distributed-work-a-gallery-view-thumbnail-what-work-matters |
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| 2021-Mar-07 |
Stop Doing - You are not lazy just not loving it |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/stop-doing-you-are-not-lazy-just-not-loving-it |
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| 2021-Feb-28 |
Why Generosity Focus |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/why-generosity-focus |
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| 2021-Feb-21 |
Forward Memory & Bias |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/forward-memory-bias |
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| 2021-Feb-12 |
Your Hobby and why that mindset matters to your levelup in work and
relationships |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/your-hobby-and-why-that-mindset-matters-to-your-levelup-in-work-and-relationships |
|
| 2021-Feb-07 |
Phonecalls, Mediums and messages |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/phonecalls-mediums-and-messages |
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| 2021-Jan-30 |
Emotions - KPI for your wetware |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/emotions-kpi-for-your-wetware |
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| 2021-Jan-24 |
Two sides of More |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/two-sides-of-more |
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| 2021-Jan-17 |
Angry Memories |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/angry-memories |
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| 2021-Jan-10 |
THE work you want to do again |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/the-work-you-want-to-do-again |
THE work you want to do again. Great work is often rewarded with great
work.. What do you want to become
better at and for whom?. Whats a
position you would feel its a luxury to serve WHOM from?. .
Dont make it about waiting for perfect.. Make it about progress - however tiny that
might feel.. . Dont make it about you.. Make it about those you're helping. |
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| 2021-Jan-04 |
Are they Glad did and to they still benefit from your help long
afterwards |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/are-they-glad-did-and-to-they-still-benefit-from-your-help-long-afterwards |
|
| 2020-Dec-27 |
its not yours - so what is really? |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/its-not-yours-so-what-is-really |
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| 2020-Dec-22 |
Distributed Christmas |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/distributed-christmas |
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| 2020-Dec-21 |
Simplicity First or Chaos Follows |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/simplicity-first-or-chaos-follows |
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| 2020-Dec-15 |
Understanding Your Emotions, Curious on others not seeking control |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/understanding-your-emotions-curious-on-others-not-seeking-control |
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| 2020-Nov-29 |
Proving it vs Enrollment and Engagement |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/proving-it-vs-enrollment-and-engagement |
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| 2020-Nov-22 |
Your Vulnerable Mind |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/your-vulnerable-mind |
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| 2020-Nov-15 |
Lonely Distributed Christmas is coming for some: Do you show up for them? |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/lonely-distributed-christmas-is-coming-for-some-do-you-show-up-for-them |
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| 2020-Nov-07 |
Time is Destroyer of everything, Decay & Optimism |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/time-is-destroyer-of-everything-decay-optimism |
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| 2020-Nov-01 |
Infinite Game Windows - are you embracing reality before they close? |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/infinite-game-windows-are-you-embracing-reality-before-they-close |
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| 2020-Oct-26 |
Seek to understand before seeking to be understood and ways to learn |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/seek-to-understand-before-seeking-to-be-understood-and-ways-to-learn |
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| 2020-Oct-17 |
Options, Preference And Opening up Comfort Zone |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/options-preference-and-opening-up-comfort-zone |
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| 2020-Oct-09 |
Generously Relate & work to not judge, divide or oversimplify |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/generously-relate-work-to-not-judge-divide-or-oversimplify |
Relate to each other, asking
ourselves how we RELATE not how we differ, judge or oversimplify into
polarized either or.. everything is a
projection. everything is a reflection of us.. .
Dont blame others, systems and subsystems. Own your intent, effort and
behaviour.. . Currently around you its a lot of focus on
being divided,. bad at
listening,. more judgmental. We fool
ourselves that its either or/black or white.
if I'm right you must be wrong: no grayscale. Our axis never align perfectly, we can
still be both mostly right. learn the
hard soft skills, everything else will get automated.. scripts ignore all sunk costs. .
instead train on:. * give and
receive feedback. * having difficult
conversations. * training in one area
might transfer to all areas. * Relate
to each other, and teaching others how they benefit from that focus as well*
helping others on their journey towards their destination, and seeing
overlaps and when it's time to let go.
. 3LQaVkKUenFXYUn0peQo. |
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| 2020-Oct-04 |
Loving your people, causes and results |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/loving-your-people-causes-and-results |
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| 2020-Sep-26 |
Hurt Twice and staying positive |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/hurt-twice-and-staying-positive |
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| 2020-Sep-19 |
Everything seek balance - owning yours |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/everything-seek-balance-owning-yours |
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| 2020-Sep-19 |
enthusiasm fun and curiosity |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/enthusiasm-fun-and-curiosity |
|
| 2020-Sep-19 |
Optimism,showing appreciation,Volunteering and projecting beyond what you
see |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/optimismshowing-appreciationvolunteering-and-projecting-beyond-what-you-see |
|
| 2020-Sep-13 |
Create Remarkable Space for Others |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/create-remarkable-space-for-others |
|
| 2020-Sep-06 |
The Levelup Cycle of becoming the company you keep |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/the-levelup-cycle-of-becoming-the-company-you-keep |
|
| 2020-Aug-29 |
How to me more you in your work |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/how-to-me-more-you-in-your-work |
|
| 2020-Aug-09 |
Not Ready - Prepared for Opportunity, Risk and Emotional Work |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/not-ready-prepared-for-opportunity-risk-and-emotional-work |
|
| 2020-Aug-01 |
Illusions we keap before leaping - you dont control how others will feel
or react |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/illusions-we-keap-before-leaping-you-dont-control-how-others-will-feel-or-react |
|
| 2020-Jul-25 |
Knowledge, Know-Ledge, Know-L-Edge & Duality |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/knowledge-know-ledge-know-l-edge-duality |
|
| 2020-Jul-18 |
Creating Friendships intentionally |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/creating-friendships-intentionally |
|
| 2020-Jul-11 |
Relationships in Distributed Work & Cyberspace = For most it Decays
Faster |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/relationships-in-distributed-work-cyberspace-for-most-it-decays-faster |
|
| 2020-Jul-03 |
Number TWO will set you free for opportunity - AND its generously
creating space for others |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/number-two-will-set-you-free-for-opportunity-and-its-generously-creating-space-for-others |
|
| 2020-Jun-28 |
Uncertainty early - Others Prio items isnt your and thats OK |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/uncertainty-early-others-prio-items-isnt-your-and-thats-ok |
|
| 2020-Jun-21 |
Signals and the Position and Posture you take |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/signals-and-the-position-and-posture-you-take |
|
| 2020-Jun-14 |
System Empathy |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/system-empathy |
|
| 2020-Jun-06 |
Leaderhip isnt a checklist nor a websearch fix |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/leaderhip-isnt-a-checklist-nor-a-websearch-fix |
|
| 2020-May-30 |
Distributed Culture, Diversity and using Game Mechanics in current Game
windows |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/distributed-culture-diversity-and-using-game-mechanics-in-current-game-windows |
|
| 2020-May-24 |
Humble is not thinking less of yourself |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/humble-is-not-thinking-less-of-yourself |
Humble is not thinking less of yourself,.
it's thinking of yourself less..
. Be the hardest working in the
room, not the loudest. |
|
| 2020-May-17 |
Different yet Normal |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/different-yet-normal |
|
| 2020-May-10 |
Serious Play |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/serious-play |
|
| 2020-May-03 |
Knowledge is power yet only imagination and Action creates impact |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/knowledge-is-power-yet-only-imagination-and-action-creates-impact |
|
| 2020-Apr-26 |
Doing IT |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/doing-it |
OK to fumble while learning just intentionally keep practice and evaluate
for those you care about. |
|
| 2020-Apr-18 |
Living in Replay Simulation Mode |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/living-in-replay-simulation-mode |
Living in Replay Simulation Mode,.
What is Normal,. Intentionally
Act Now. |
|
| 2020-Apr-13 |
Clarity and Confidence = Status Quo, uncertainty ahead is for making
better things |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/clarity-and-confidence-status-quo-uncertainty-ahead-is-for-making-better-things |
|
| 2020-Apr-05 |
Kindness to Self and Others Urgently needed |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/-kindness-to-self-and-others-urgently-needed |
|
| 2020-Mar-29 |
Intentionally positioning yourself for generosity is what builds culture |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/intentionally-positioning-yourself-for-generosity-is-what-builds-culture |
|
| 2020-Mar-08 |
Intentional Action - focus on the ACTION PART |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/intentional-action-focus-on-the-action-part |
Here's the video version of this audio for those interested. .
<a href=
"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0QJJp0uGsPU&list=PLZnle-1ZnD6eU9vyN5x8Ulvlj8Ivat1v-">
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0QJJp0uGsPU&list=PLZnle-1ZnD6eU9vyN5x8Ulvlj8Ivat1v-</a>. |
|
| 2020-Mar-01 |
Intentional Actions, Are you using the right medium for lasting change? |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/intentional-actions-are-you-using-the-right-medium-for-lasting-change |
|
| 2020-Feb-23 |
Now is the time to talk to your spouse or boss about vacation and other
plans |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/now-is-the-time-to-talk-to-your-spouse-or-boss-about-vacation-and-other-plans |
|
| 2020-Feb-16 |
imagining positive intent |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/imagining-positive-intent |
|
| 2020-Feb-09 |
Your Counterpoint value |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/your-counterpoint-value |
|
| 2020-Feb-02 |
Belonging Longing |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/belonging-longing |
Do you actively, regularly help others feel like they belong?. |
|
| 2020-Jan-26 |
Games are won by those who focus on the playing field |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/games-are-won-by-those-who-focus-on-the-playing-field |
|
| 2020-Jan-19 |
Do you inner game words free you to act or block you |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/do-you-inner-game-words-free-you-to-act-or-block-you |
|
| 2020-Jan-12 |
curiosity, generosity & your inner game |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/curiosity-generosity-your-inner-game |
|
| 2020-Jan-06 |
Learning Faster and Better |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/learning-faster-and-better |
|
| 2019-Dec-29 |
Create Space of Remarkable |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/create-space-of-remarkable |
|
| 2019-Dec-22 |
Owning Results & Costs |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/owning-results-costs |
|
| 2019-Dec-15 |
Orchestrating your success - environment and people around you |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/orchestrating-your-success-environment-and-people-around-you |
|
| 2019-Dec-08 |
Your Time Source, Relationships and Cost of Delay |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/your-time-source-relationships-and-cost-of-delay |
|
| 2019-Dec-01 |
Energy - sources beyond visible patterns |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/energy-sources-beyond-visible-patterns |
|
| 2019-Nov-24 |
Why Machine, Deep learning & AI speeds up the hatchet of change so
much - and why I think it matter to every relationship you have |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/why-machine-deep-learning-ai-speeds-up-the-hatchet-of-change-so-much-and-why-i-think-it-matter-to-every-relationship-you-have |
Why Machine, Deep learning & AI speeds up the hatchet of change so
much - and why I think it matter to every relationship you have. |
|
| 2019-Nov-17 |
How to hear Earlier and more status, dreams, ideas from people that
matter to you |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/how-to-hear-earlier-and-more-status-dreams-ideas-from-people-that-matter-to-you |
|
| 2019-Nov-10 |
Thoughts and Feelings take time - are you giving it? |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/thoughts-and-feelings-take-time-are-you-giving-it |
|
| 2019-Nov-03 |
Move out of my way here I come |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/move-out-of-my-way-here-i-come |
|
| 2019-Oct-27 |
QKR KPI Metrics Hard Questions and doing the hard part |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/qkr-kpi-metrics-hard-questions-and-doing-the-hard-part |
|
| 2019-Oct-20 |
Good People Might Do Bad Things |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/good-people-might-do-bad-things |
Are you aware of the results of your intentions and actions?. . We
dont know the intent behind an outcome, but imagine a positive intent from
others helps build relationships..
Likewise setting healthy boundaries also helps build
relationships. |
|
| 2019-Oct-13 |
Why is this work important? (Podcasting about Relationship Power at work) |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/why-is-this-work-important-podcasting-about-relationship-power-at-work |
What work are you doing that feels so important you just HAVE to do it
(for others benefit)? Why is that so?. |
|
| 2019-Oct-06 |
Tolerating & Tolerance |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/tolerating-tolerance |
|
| 2019-Sep-29 |
BetterBias, UpperLimit Belief & Risks – Please just start already |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/betterbias-upperlimit-belief-risks-please-just-start-already |
BetterBias, UpperLimit Belief &
Risks – Please just start already.
. . Books mentioned in this episode. <a href=
"https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0061735361/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=riclindberg-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=0061735361&linkId=740f34185383d65cd55c581c8012fb7e">
<strong>The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the
Next Level</strong></a>.
. <a href=
"https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1250107814/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1250107814&linkCode=as2&tag=riclindberg-20&linkId=f3974f45f994782dbebfabbfd08dd38a">
<strong>Factfulness: Ten Reasons We're Wrong About the World--and Why
Things Are Better Than You Think</strong></a>. . |
|
| 2019-Sep-23 |
Ping-pong play & Uncomfortable Conversations required to level up |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/ping-pong-play-uncomfortable-conversations-required-to-level-up |
|
| 2019-Sep-15 |
Your Story and Talking To Strangers |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/your-story-and-talking-to-strangers |
Your Story and Talking To
Strangers. I’m currently in Seth
Godin’s beta program of Storytelling and reflect out loud on the combination
of that and the book I’m currently listening to (that was released today so
I’m just partly done listening to it).
. . Book: Talking to Strangers:
What We Should Know about the People We Don’t Know 2. Link: https://amzn.to/2Q7GCV0. .
. Course: Story Skills
Workshop. Link:
https://str1.akimbo.com. |
|
| 2019-Sep-08 |
On Trust |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/on-trust |
On Trust. Reach and information is
not enough. . is never about what you say. its about what people do. .
do they trust what you see and bring to their table?. |
|
| 2019-Sep-01 |
Bandwidth of Generosity, Enthusiasm & Curiosity |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/bandwidth-of-generosity-enthusiasm-curiosity |
|
| 2019-Aug-25 |
Waking up Grateful |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/waking-up-grateful |
|
| 2019-Aug-18 |
KPIs & Teaching the Test |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/kpis-teaching-the-test |
|
| 2019-Aug-12 |
Give Early - Connect Directly |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/give-early-connect-directly |
Please dont wait. Please listen to the resistance, and the
feelings that get in the way for teaching others what you know - then find a
way to do it anyway.. Also remind
yourself of others calendar-time..
often we intend to give generously but time catches up with us and
without intending to we could have given no help + time to people instead of
sending them early and with faults, we hoped to fix it before sending them
yet other priorities got in the way and we're still sending them as it was
before anyway.. Dare to share and
teach earlier, faster, more often..
You already know enough to give. today. Again and again.. |
|
| 2019-Aug-04 |
Removing Shame from Experiments |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/removing-shame-from-experiments |
Experimenting with things that
might work but are not guaranteed to work takes a lot of emotional work.
Separating the work from our self-identity. Allowing our “self-esteem” the
hit of failure, when we all wish to make it..
You’ll never learn anything new properly if you’re not open to be
vulnerable in your self-esteem.. If
you can remove shame from not making things work the first time you try it
you’ve come a LOT way to propel your work forward. Its hard work for all of
us but well worth it.. What WOULD you
bring our world if there was NO shame in trying?. |
|
| 2019-Aug-04 |
Digital Twins Update |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/digital-twins-update |
I've spoken about Digital Twins multiple times over the years but it’s
worth a reminder on how it will affect your relationships and
effectiveness. . |
|
| 2019-Jul-28 |
Being Generous Towards yourself |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/being-generous-towards-yourself |
ARE you generous towards yourself?.
so you'll know how to give better to those you care about?. . if
we're not starting with also being generous to ourselves,. its easy to fool ourselves what better
looks like. |
|
| 2019-Jul-21 |
Your Oasis |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/your-oasis |
Do you know your Oasis?. Do you know where you regenerate?. Where you get energy, insight and
encouragement from?. Its more often a
WHO than a place.. Are you investing
energy finding people who get you,. Or
investing energy adapting to people who don’t?. .
Only YOU know "your" place.
Dont let anyone else tell you otherwise. |
|
| 2019-Jul-14 |
WHO do you want to teach WHAT |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/who-do-you-want-to-teach-what |
|
| 2019-Jul-07 |
The Mindset of learning, of letting go, of moving forward. I've learned
as much as I can from. Thank you I will now move forward. Gratitude and let go. |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/the-mindset-of-learning-of-letting-go-of-moving-forward-ive-learned-as-much-as-i-can-from-thank-you-i-will-now-move-forward-gratitude-and-let-go |
|
| 2019-Jun-30 |
Living Life the Right Way and vacation reflections |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/living-life-the-right-way-and-vacation-reflections |
|
| 2019-Jun-23 |
Structure, Relationships & Results |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/structure-relationships-results |
|
| 2019-Jun-16 |
NextBetter Why Doing Better cant be all safe and the importance of doing
things that might not work |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/nextbetter-why-doing-better-cant-be-all-safe-and-the-importance-of-doing-things-that-might-not-work |
|
| 2019-Jun-09 |
The New Safe Embrace unsafe |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/the-new-safe-embrace-unsafe |
|
| 2019-Jun-03 |
Status |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/status |
Status affect way more than it perhaps should.. Accepting reality is the first step in
changing it. |
|
| 2019-May-27 |
Don't wait for mentoring or coaching - learn yourself |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/dont-wait-for-mentoring-or-coaching-learn-yourself |
Dont wait for mentoring.. Dont
wait to be picked.. Dont wait to
recieve that special anything..
Instead work hard to position yourself AND thus making it more likely
to have someone wanting to mentor you, to make yourself ready IF you get
picked.. . |
|
| 2019-May-23 |
Urgency of doing things today that matter - Learn – don’t compare, don't
wait |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/urgency-of-doing-things-today-that-matter-learn-dont-compare-dont-wait |
Do things that matter today, so
you’ll learn.. Don’t waste time
comparing – remind yourself it’s the learning and doing that’s important and
comparing often gets in the way more than we ever learn.. This is urgent. Do thinks every day that
matters, however small. That consistency will what makes you win whenever you
need to win way more likely than watching others.. |
|
| 2019-May-20 |
Culture IS Strategy |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/culture-is-strategy |
Culture is just behaviour. Effect is just a result of behaviour.. Are you focused on your own behaviour and
that of those around you? without this it doesnt matter what your powerpoint
slides say your people "should" do in a fancy greatlooking strategy
document.. |
|
| 2019-May-12 |
Resilience - in business and relationships |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/resilience-in-business-and-relationships |
What does Resilience mean to you?.
What does it enable?. |
|
| 2019-May-08 |
Hard work is NOT results, are you chasing illusions. |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/hard-work-is-not-results-are-you-chasing-illusions |
Are you doing the work that matters?.
Or are you just doing hard work because you "hope" if its
hard, it should be rewarded?. |
|
| 2019-Apr-29 |
Restorability & backup for better relationships |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/restorability-backup-for-better-relationships |
Just some food for thought on the
URGENT need for you to think about restorability so backups don’t get in the
way of your relationships.. * Divorce
and family photos?. * Employee and
boss asks for phone back?. *
Programmer backup = 100x speed and trust.
Trust? Are your provider doing analytics on your backups?. |
|
| 2019-Apr-22 |
Who controls the data for your emotional choices? |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/who-controls-the-data-for-your-emotional-choices |
<strong>Who controls the data
for your emotional choices?</strong>.
Know thyself is more urgent than ever!. We’re all emotional creatures – a great
important part of our evolution.. It’s
important to know that you’re now surrounded by algorithms watching you and
tweaking the environment around you constantly. For both great and scary
effects.. That’s why it’s more
important than ever to know thyself, to understand what makes you tick so
you’ll recognize what’s going on. Say when you think you’re reading news and
in effect, you’re being manipulated to make a certain decision.. .
Why fascism is so tempting — and how your data could power it
Yuval Noah Harari | TED2018. <a
title= "https://www.ted.com/talks/yuval_noah_harari_why_fascism_is_so_tempting_and_how_your_data_could_power_it"
href=
"https://www.ted.com/talks/yuval_noah_harari_why_fascism_is_so_tempting_and_how_your_data_could_power_it">
https://www.ted.com/talks/yuval_noah_harari_why_fascism_is_so_tempting_and_how_your_data_could_power_it</a>. Facebook's role in Brexit — and the threat
to democracy |Carole Cadwalladr | TED2019.
<a href=
"https://www.ted.com/talks/carole_cadwalladr_facebook_s_role_in_brexit_and_the_threat_to_democracy">
https://www.ted.com/talks/carole_cadwalladr_facebook_s_role_in_brexit_and_the_threat_to_democracy</a>. |
| 2019-Apr-14 |
This is Marketing worth the listen or read from so many angles |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/this-is-marketing-worth-the-listen-or-read-from-so-many-angles |
This is Marketing worth the listen
or read from so many angles. This
episode is a tribute to Seth Godin, and a recommendation of his book This Is
Marketing: You Can't Be Seen Until You Learn to See. IF you only read one book this year I
recommend you make it this one before others.. It applies to so much beyond
marketing.. Ric share’s some of his
thoughts on Seth Quotes. <ul>
<li>My product is for people who believe ...</li> <li>I
will focus on people who want...</li> <li>I promise that engaging
with what I make will help you get...</li> </ul> . You’re listening to episode 365 of this
podcast, and I’ve shipped it weekly for 5 years to get to this point in
time.. I surely was a slow learner
facing so many resistances getting here. I still struggle with some of them
and most likely will find new resistances as I keep leveling up.. .
Without Seth and all I’ve learned from Seth over the years about
[daring] to dance with tension and [daring] to do the work that matter this
podcast wouldn’t exist. Seth is the number ONE reason I’m doing this for you
and everyone else listening to this..
Thank you Seth!. This Is
Marketing: You Can't Be Seen Until You Learn to See. IF you’re curious I recommend you get the
audio version because Seth is taking time to read it himself. https://amzn.to/2Ijew4I. |
|
| 2019-Apr-07 |
Everything is Trust: Emotional Numbers, Daring To Focus, Pivot or Quit |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/everything-is-trust-emotional-numbers-daring-to-focus-pivot-or-quit |
|
| 2019-Mar-30 |
Brand, Reputation and DOING the work that matters. |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/brand-reputation-and-doing-the-work-that-matters |
Brand, Reputation and DOING the
work that matters.. I know I here talk
about how important DOING things is – to get real life feedback, to connect,
to learn.. Getting our ideas out of
our heads to meet the world so we connect with our community, so we show up
for those we seek to help. But it’s even more important to embrace that it’s
not enough to just do better work. We must all of us also embrace branding,
reputation and all the work that makes OUR work matter, be noticed and feel
relevant for those we want to help..
With all the noise in our world just being the best, or having shipped
the best product is not enough.. We
must all work on our brand. That the result of that work is NOT up to us.
Branding in today’s connected world: For both global around the world brands,
as well as your personal brand is:.
Other people's expectation of you. The promise you deliver to them.
THAT is your brand.. its easy to live
in the illusion that they'll get it eventually, if we just do good work.. That they will come if we just build
"the right <insert your product>" but it’s not enough.. My experience is that in order for your
people to get the maximum value out of your product or “value”. They must get the reputation your brand
bring with it from others, not directly from you.. The noise blocks out who's the best.. Seek to be the best for those you serve
including do work on marketing, branding, reputation in a way that matter to
them.. Don’t seek to gamify what ‘ever
platform you're on.. Eventually
algorithms will learn and you're community as well. You don’t want to be left
obsolete just because an algorithm was updated.. quote: Warren Buffet. It takes 20 years to build a reputation and
five minutes to ruin it. If you think about that, you'll do things
differently. What’s your legacy? What
are you building for those you serve beyond you?. What is the promise you bring those that
connect with what you do?. |
|
| 2019-Mar-23 |
Go around it |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/go-around-it |
Go around it.. Dont wait for perfect - Its OK to go around
the long way as long as you keep taking steps forward. .
Be kind to yourself. Dont wait for the perfect candidate, perfect
opportunity or perfect idea..
. Once you go around and
obsticle and you make them pointless they're often happy to help you - making
it appear you've walked in a straighter line that you have for an
outsiders.. dont compare yourself to
others because you dont know the detours they have made to get it done.. Focus on progress, and what's working and
what is.. not others and how you think
it "should be". Primilary
ask yourself what can you DO, instead of listening to the sceptics in your
head?. dont worry about what others
think or say if you're not starting by enrolling the top candidate. Few
succesful people did when they started. We just fool ourselves by comparing
thinking everyone else had it easier to change things that we do. Usually
they did not but invested effort anyone eventually making it.. |
|
| 2019-Mar-16 |
Laser Focus |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/laser-focus |
Laser Focus. What are you focusing on right now?. . So
many of us imagine success as “having it all.”. .
While that may be true, the way to get there requires focus; giving up
a lot of things, disappearing from the spotlight, and building that one thing
that will be your contribution to the world--your legacy.. .
The first step to achieving something is figuring out what you want in
the first place. And the more you think about it, the more you realize how
much harder it actually is.. . What is something that you like, love, and
care for? What is something that you love doing so much that you can do it
for the rest of your life?. . What is something that you're willing to
grow and flourish at the expense of momentarily saying no to so many things
because it will take a lot of you to turn an idea into a reality?. .
Every success story begins with a decision to focus on one thing.
Constrain how much you are doing at the moment to expand an idea that will
have value five years from now, ten years from now. No one will see what you
are building. They won’t understand why you're so driven at something or why
you are saying “no” to them or to other opportunities.. .
It's challenging to say “no” because it's so easy to go with the flow,
to get rewarded and recognized around people.. .
But when you start saying no, because you are laser focused on
opportunities that align with your goal, you have more room to say yes to the
things that matter. You have more energy and mind power to absorb everything
that will further you in your direction..
. Everything you do is
connected. You grow from the right opportunities. You see things that busy
people often look past.. Make your timeline
something important here and now and you will build something exceptional for
those you care about.. . . |
|
| 2019-Mar-10 |
Strangled by your own convenience |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/strangled-by-your-own-convenience |
Strangled by your own
convenience. I know you love your
comfort zone. So do I. I go there to
rest myself and I have to force myself out, into scary uncharted territory
every time. My Personal Trainer say
most of us have trouble picking things up from the ground when we get old.
Yet a few never have this problem.
Because most stop doing it when there is a tool, chair or something to
assist with. Those who intentionally
do knit their shoes, and move every day done have this problem. for most its
that convenience got in the way – making it very inconvenient eventually.. .
. * when I was awarded
consultant of the year 2013 out of 7500 consultants I was asked to hold (by
consultants seeking the same fame and success) had a few presentations on a
few different topics one including "How to increase your value"
which often was interpreted as "How do I charge more" which surely
is a side effect of the same behaviour..
. YET most asking live
during my talk always wanted to wiggle back to a convenient answer. Hoping
they would get one word they could say when receiving an offer to increase it
by 20% without effort.. I then said
that would then be the new normal if there was such a free upgrade as no
investment needed to get more we would all be doing it explaining that
whatever you do at the "negotiation" will only shift it a sliver
versus say you have five overs all equally exiting in work. Then the talks
would be entirely different but it’s also a lot of more work. Yet in the end,
you will have a lot of more options in your life than if you let convenience
decide for you.. . .
Convenience pushes the decision you know you need to make to the
future. . .
friends not behaving as you want? choose new ones, it won’t be
convenient for a while but that space will open up for better people if you
are also willing to level up in areas that attract those you want to
attract. . .
have empathy for your naysayers.
Its uncomfortable buy if we dare to face that I, Ric, am not for
everyone then we make better decisions. this was really hard for me, I am
such a people pleaser, I really want to help everyone and that everyone love
me but what I didn’t understand for 70% of my life was that my behaviour made
me pleasant but not truly anyone’s favorite..
. . * Free stuff and convenience. We often forget the alternative cost we pay
for free stuff. Platforms and business rarely give us stuff free as a primary
thing.. Their primary thing is often a
business selling us. Convenient now but will it really be so for your future
self?. . like Brene Brown say:. <strong>Choose to uncomfortable now
instead of resentful later.</strong>.
. “Discomfort brings
engagement and change. Discomfort means you're doing something that others
were unlikely to do, because they're hiding out in the comfortable zone. When
your uncomfortable actions lead to success, the organization rewards you and
brings you back for more.” . The
very thing that feels uncomfortable is probably the thing I should be doing
at that moment. The activity that puts me on edge and tempts me to resort to
procrastination – that subtle fear is indicating the task is important.. so what to do about it?. I believe in balance. You can’t always be
outside your comfort zone. You need to rest, to reflect, to have a place
where you ask yourself the scary questions without falling into a deep
pit. but in order for that zone NOT TO
shrink so much its uncomfortable small, forcing you to stand still and stiff
you also need to show up with your whole self in at least a few areas that
matter. that matter to you, not society but yes also that matters to your
customers so you can sustain it.
. . |
|
| 2019-Mar-03 |
Your Vulnerability connects better |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/your-vulnerability-connects-better |
|
| 2019-Feb-24 |
How to be a person of Value |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/how-to-be-a-person-of-value |
How to be a person of Value. Einstein said:. Try not to be a person of success,. Instead try to be a person of value.. .
So you have to ask yourself. What is VALUE those you serve?. If don’t value people, you will never ask
yourself that question.. How can I ADD
value to those people?. . Another quote goes “Price is what you PAY,
value is what you GET”. . Thus what your customers, friends, boss,
relatives all GET from your effort and results is subjective. That’s why listening and acting is so
important.. . Listening is important because you really
need listen and embrace that subjective worldview of those you care about
BEFORE you speak. But listening alone isn’t enough. Action is required to
change things.. Speaking is important
to clarify things.. Leadership is
influence.. IF you add value to
people, then that effort will give you more influence.. |
|
| 2019-Feb-17 |
Status: Your Status, Others and the emotional work that matter |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/status-your-status-others-and-the-emotional-work-that-matter |
I think we need to talk about YOUR
status and it’s urgent we embrace the world we’re living in when it comes to
status. Status. . Status roles are at the core of who we are.
They change how we spend our time, our money and most of all, our
imaginations.. . I think we’re getting confused of what
status really means with “status updates” on platforms making most of us
think someone else is getting a vacation regularly and here we are doing the
dirty, hard work. Or comparing our efforts with the world’s top 1% unaware of
all the effort and time they have invested into getting where they are.. or how platforms today use the word friend
for anyone who’s a childhood friend just as much as someone who’s just
following you because the great work you do, or just because the platform
nudge-nudged you to accept it. OR thinking we’re part of a community when
it’s just another platform. Real-life is not a blog, twitter or most
platforms – yet surely community can be digital so how do we know?. .
Don’t spend your energy thinking about other people’s status versus
yours. Try to be kind to yourself and constantly work towards more effort
into doing the work that matters. The small work your future self will thank
you for when you go to sleep tonight does A LOT more for your status than
comparing ever will.. . Quote: John P. Kotter. Because management deals mostly with the
status quo and leadership deals mostly with change, in the next century we
are going to have to try to become much more skilled at creating
leaders.. . I think it’s more urgent than ever that we
become skilled at owning our OWN status and ignoring others as a comparison
but embracing others status as part of driving the change we make.. .
IF we are so worried about our status that we don’t dare to learn,
done dare to be a beginner don’t dare to make any mistakes we will not 100X
results, because we’ll be busy maintaining the status quo. Both in our inner
game, as well as out doing the work that matter in organisations.. .
Action now, small or big is the single best way to improve the status
quo. And the more forward motion we make, the better we’ll get at figuring
out what better looks like, if it’s a good idea, if its helping or not.
Status can be just a good block from learning, as it can be for enabling
learning and better.. |
|
| 2019-Feb-09 |
Masks and working with David Marquet on making the invisible visible |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/masks-and-working-with-david-marquet-on-making-the-invisible-visible |
Ric's currently reading the books
"Masks of Masculinity" by Lewis Howes which led to some great
conversations when he was working together with David Marquet this week on
making the invisible visible using data.
. Techinical info: this
is also the first episode on the libsyn platform only, before now I've made
355 episodes using googles feedburner AND libsyn for 5 years.. Most of my list wont migrate, just sharing
in case you get a glitch or something. then just unsubscribe and subscribe
again and most likely all will be back to normal (but on a shorter episode
list). |
|
| 2019-Feb-04 |
Self-identity and how that can blind us, in my case on arrogance |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1483 |
I’m grateful I got the chance to
work with David Marque this week. I learned lot from him this week but have
learned from him in so many ways like his Youtube Leadership Nudges, and also
learned from people who learned from him so I felt a bit Stars-truck When we
wasn’t working we talked … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/self-identity-and-how-that-can-blind-us-in-my-case-on-arrogance/"
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my case on arrogance</span> <span
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|
| 2019-Jan-28 |
Setting things right – whats better than right? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1474 |
Set things Right – whats better
than right? it’s easy to forget that what’s right most often is a matter of
worldview. Ensure to separate facts, observations and measurements from
labels Both are needed to do better that lasts. We need to figure our own values,
“our definition of right” before enrolling others towards change, … <a
href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/setting-things-right-whats-better-than-right/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Setting
things right – whats better than right?</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2019-Jan-21 |
Act as if |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1471 |
Act as if – Do, measure, evaluate,
experiment Failure, might not work as part of your identity, where it’s
easier to learn from failure. not fake it to you make it – where it’s really
hard to emotionally handle failure Most really successful people did not make
ONE plan and that worked out most tried … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/act-as-if/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span
class="screen-reader-text">Act as if</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2019-Jan-14 |
Expectations are the fuel and engine of perceptions |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1468 |
How well are you tending to yours?
How aware are you that they’re at the helm of everything you do, and everyone
you meet. What do you expect to see on the other side of your effort? How
often are you right? Dont expect anything to happen differently without you
doing differently. Dont expect things … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/expectations-are-the-fuel-and-engine-of-perceptions/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Expectations are the fuel and engine of
perceptions</span> <span
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|
| 2019-Jan-07 |
Decision traceback – delayed feedback and results, learn to embrace yes
or no when it matters |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1465 |
Its easy to forget when a decision
is actually made. When we’re stuck fighting the system of not embracing a YES
fully, or not setting a clear and strong boundary, aka said NO to something
when it mattered more, than when we’re standing knee-deep into it. How can
you help yourself trace back when a … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/decision-traceback-delayed-feedback-and-results-learn-to-embrace-yes-or-no-when-it-matters/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Decision traceback – delayed feedback and
results, learn to embrace yes or no when it matters</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Dec-24 |
How do I know this is the idea to go all in for? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1457 |
How do I know this is the idea to
go all in for? I hear this from clients and people often, in different forms
like: Please tell me THIS is the idea to go all in for Is this THE idea to go
for? Please tell me I’m at the tipping point, that it will … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/how-do-i-know-this-is-the-idea-to-go-all-in-for/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">How do I know this is the idea to go all in
for?</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Dec-17 |
Teach Dare to do things that might not work |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1454 |
Teach Dare to do things that might
not work Don’t wait for school or anyone else to teach those that matter to
you the most important things like daring to do things that might not work,
daring to do things that society doesn’t understand. Daring to listen to
yourself thru a dip, quit and give … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/teach-dare-to-do-things-that-might-not-work/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Teach Dare to do things that might not
work</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Dec-10 |
Beware Fake Paths, illusionary progress and blockers |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1451 |
Beware Fake Paths, illusionary progress and blockers Learn to listen to
yourself, including when to, and when not to, others |
|
| 2018-Dec-03 |
Algoritms- why they matter so much to your relationships |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1448 |
Algoritms- why they matter so much to your relationships The chain of
algoritms is woven around all you meet, all day long. Your reputation
preceede you in all your first contacts There is no escape. Use it or get
used by it. |
|
| 2018-Nov-26 |
Christmas is coming – talk to your people. We are all rusty and emotional
at this |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1446 |
Christmas is coming – talk to your people. We are all rusty and emotional
during this holiday, be kind to yourself AND those around you. Start talking
now, before tickets get [too] costly and while dates and items are easier to
set and get. |
|
| 2018-Nov-19 |
What you are unaware of controls you |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1441 |
What you are unaware of controls
you Always work to become more aware. You can’t work with stuff that you’re
not aware of. You can’t know the great potential that lies within you or
others if you’re not exploring, and daring to be curious where others don’t.
Always A/B test what you think you know, … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/what-you-are-unaware-of-controls-you/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">What you are unaware of controls
you</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Nov-12 |
Patience – Race dont chase |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1437 |
Patience is something you can
become better at. Its not a born thing that you either have or don’t have.
Patience matter now most urgently because all the easy jobs will be gone
soon. Easy is replacable. Automatable. Easy jobs also makes you a commodity the
instant you take it. Sure, its scary leveling … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/patience-race-dont-chase/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Patience – Race dont chase</span>
<span class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Nov-05 |
Your Communication matter – 3 simple steps for better effect |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1433 |
Meta talk about YOUR communication. Yes, I’m talking about your message
earlier today. Are you seeing the effect you want when you say something?
|
|
| 2018-Oct-29 |
Embrace failing AND keep taking action to learn what better looks like |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1431 |
Embrace failing AND keep taking
action to learn what better looks like If you find yourself failing
often where you want to be in life and business. Allow yourself to take
smaller steps and be kind to yourself when evaluating why If you find
yourself failing rarely where you want to be in … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/embrace-failing-and-keep-taking-action-to-learn-what-better-looks-like/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Embrace
failing AND keep taking action to learn what better looks like</span>
<span class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Oct-22 |
6 Steps to a Ready Resume – its time to update |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1428 |
Life is full of changes.
Opportunities often catch us by surprise. Only those who are ready to grab
the chance wins the game. An updated resume is a great tool to showcase your
potential and convince the big man to give you a shot. 1. Have a Clear Message
Who you do want to serve? … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/6-steps-to-a-ready-resume-its-time-to-update/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">6 Steps to a Ready Resume – its time to
update</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Oct-15 |
Befriend Boredom |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1425 |
Busy, busy, busy! We live in a
world where everyone is dedicated, driven, and competitive at work. Traffic
takes forever. We spend our night eating fast food in front of Netflix when
we’re not out for a drink with friends. We spend our lives chasing things
that can make us happy while trying to remain … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/befriend-boredom/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Befriend Boredom</span> <span
class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Oct-08 |
Let it Go |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1422 |
Let It Go Brace yourself! Life is a
voyage. You will sail to wondrous places. Strangers can become friends and
friends can become strangers. Expect the unknown and the unexpected. Be
prepared to win and lose. Stay excited for what’s ahead. Let go of your
fixations. Your plans may no longer work given the new … <a
href="http://RelationshipPower.com/a/let-it-go/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span
class="screen-reader-text">Let it Go</span> <span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Oct-01 |
The Big Leap and importance of State of Play |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1418 |
4 Realizations From “The Big Leap”
By Gay Hendricks “The Big Leap” is a book that encourages people to reach
their pinnacle by going beyond excellence. Break your upper limit. Realize
there is no ceiling to what you can achieve in life. Play As An Adult Nurture
the child in you. Stay curious. Play. Stretch … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-big-leap-and-importance-of-state-of-play/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Big Leap and importance of State of
Play</span> <span
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|
| 2018-Sep-24 |
indistractable |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1416 |
“You can’t do big things if you are
distracted by small things.” -Unknown Distraction is just as powerful and as
dangerous today as it was thousands of years ago. It takes a new form and is
now present in the very thing that we need in our daily lives: technology.
Author Nir Eyal writes about … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/indistractable/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">indistractable</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Sep-17 |
Work Ethic and Grit works for everyone. Better than waiting for talent |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1413 |
Work Ethic and Grit works for everyone. Better than waiting for talent So
what are you waiting for? WHO is worthy of your best hard work? Even when
no-one is watching but yourself? |
|
| 2018-Sep-10 |
Emotional Work: Don’t underestimate the important of what you learn in
the slow grind |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1411 |
Emotional Work, Hard Work, Long
Slow Grind Work – don’t underestimate the important of what you learn in the
slow grind Few things in life are the insta-win you see in media. Most of
those media show you has been standing on the same position service others
for long years before sky-rocketing and getting noticed … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/emotional-work-dont-underestimate-the-important-of-what-you-learn-in-the-slow-grind/"
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important of what you learn in the slow grind</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Sep-03 |
5 Friendships You Have To Make: You become the company you keep |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1407 |
5 Friendships You Have To Make: You
become the company you keep Think of the five people closest to you–the ones
you spend most of your time with, your confidants, peers, family, and org
mates. What is their influence in your life? Do they share your fire? Are
they as ambitious as you? What are … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/5-friendships-you-have-to-make-you-become-the-company-you-keep/"
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"screen-reader-text">5 Friendships You Have To Make: You become
the company you keep</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Aug-27 |
Ratchets: The Beginning of Change |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1404 |
Ratchets: The Beginning of Change
Seasons are magical. Yesterday, the leaves of the trees were cold and white.
Right now, it gets greener each day. But soon, it will turn yellow, then red,
and finally brown. The world we live in is alive. And we know that because
it’s constantly changing, evolving. We are little … <a
href="http://RelationshipPower.com/a/ratchets-the-beginning-of-change/"
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"screen-reader-text">Ratchets: The Beginning of
Change</span> <span
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|
| 2018-Aug-20 |
Motor Examples |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1399 |
Motor Examples What’s your motor?
Do you know, guard and focus on your peak hours? Do you know what fuels YOUR
motors and those around you? Do you know what feeds all the systems,
organizations and people around you? In this cast Ric dives into a few places
you encounter motors, algorithms and how this … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/motor-examples/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span
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|
| 2018-Aug-13 |
Your Trains, Ratchets and Motors |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1397 |
Your Trains, Ratchets and Motors
Most people worry way too much about the big mistake of getting on the wrong
train. I think the biggest mistake I’ve done, and I see others doing is NOT
getting of it when they’ve established it’s not heading in their direction.
Instead investing time and energy thinking about how … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/your-trains-ratchets-and-motors/"
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"screen-reader-text">Your Trains, Ratchets and
Motors</span> <span
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|
| 2018-Aug-06 |
You are your work in the Mesh economy |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1393 |
You are your work in the Mesh
economy Some thoughts about how important it is to ask yourself “What is it
for” – and embrace that there multiple answers to that questions. First what
is it for from the perspective of those you serve? But also what is it for
from your own perspective? And … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/you-are-your-work-in-the-mesh-economy/"
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|
| 2018-Jul-30 |
dont Shrink, dont Puff: some thoughts on shame |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1391 |
dont Shrink, dont Puff: some thoughts on shame Some of my thoughts on the
great quote by Brene Brows ”dont shrink dont puff” and the behaviour it
creates. For me its a very effective quote to realize whats going on. Within
me and within the people I help or meet. |
|
| 2018-Jul-23 |
Time, investments and relationships |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1388 |
Guard your time investments. Plan your time investments. Evaluate your
time investments and the results, energy and relationships you get out of it.
Pay attention to your time & relationships – because they’re the only
thing you cant get back. |
|
| 2018-Jul-16 |
Race don’t chase, Try not to compare. Generosity is one answer |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1386 |
Race don’t chase, Try not to
compare Don’t compare because you just can’t know how it is walking in their
shoes. What they have invested, in effort, time or other resources that you
don’t see. Its human to compare. I think its one of the biggest trauma of our
generation. We compare ourselves to the … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/race-dont-chase-try-not-to-compare-generosity-is-one-answer/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Race don’t chase, Try not to compare.
Generosity is one answer</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Jul-09 |
Positive Future versus here and now? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1383 |
Positive Future versus here and
now? How often your feedback have more to do about the past than the positive
future behaviour you want to help create? How often to you sacrifice what you
want the MOST for what you want now? How often do you confuse the word
discipline with consequence? Instead of its … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/positive-future-versus-here-and-now/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Positive Future versus here and
now?</span> <span
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|
| 2018-Jul-02 |
Selfishness doesn’t last – What does Success look like to you? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1381 |
Selfishness doesn’t last – What
does Success look like to you? Selfishness doesn’t last. IF you want to win
the infinite game generosity is the key, the path and the endgame. If you’re
asking yourself “What does Success look like to me” ensure you wave in how
you show your gratefulness to your tribe just … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/selfishness-doesnt-last-what-does-success-look-like-to-you/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Selfishness doesn’t last – What does
Success look like to you?</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Jun-25 |
Confusing Ambivalent People |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1377 |
Confusing Ambivalent People … your
Energy ..your results …your circles. You really become the company you
keep It’s easy to say stay clear of obviously toxic people. It’s easy to say
work with great people. What we often forget is the ongoing cost of confusing
and ambivalent people. Especially the alternative cost of what might … <a
href= "http://RelationshipPower.com/a/confusing-ambivalent-people/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Confusing Ambivalent People</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-Jun-18 |
Getting Pro Clients |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1375 |
Getting Pro Clients Choosing and working hard for the right Clients,
Customers, Managers, Bosses – who ever you choose so serve is one of the most
important choices in your life. This episode is some answers to questions
I’ve received on my podcast episode “Getting Better Clients” |
|
| 2018-Jun-04 |
Create Health OR promote disease? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1368 |
Create Health OR promote disease?
What if you could easily see how every tiny decision do make every minute in
your life as either a small step to “Create Health for yourself, your family,
your friends, your customer or anyone else you really care deeply for” OR
that the alternative cost of not honoring that … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/create-health-or-promote-disease/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Create Health OR promote
disease?</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2018-May-28 |
Your Vehicles, your results, your relationships |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1365 |
Are you sure you’re in a ride
heading where you want to be? Is it time to get a better one? is it time to
pick up others and help them get to where they want to be too? Are you in a
ride that’s leaking energy or giving it? Have the driver landed rockets …
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"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/your-vehicles-your-results-your-relationships/"
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relationships</span> <span
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| 2018-May-21 |
Illusions about having time |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1363 |
Illusions about having time
Illusions about time, smoke and mirrors we do to ourselves In this episode I
share some thoughts about time You might also want to take a look on this
talk on youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPaS85IA6oY Before You Waste
Time – WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty 2018-05-08 |
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| 2018-May-14 |
You matter You belong. Be Remarkable |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1357 |
You matter. You Belong. Be[come]
Remarkable It’s up to you to think thru WHO you want to belong with. Not
making that choice will make you belong somewhere, regardless. Others depend
on you making a choice that matters for both of you. Sometimes it helps us to
make that choice by using another work. Being … <a href=
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class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">You matter You belong. Be
Remarkable</span> <span
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|
| 2018-May-07 |
Inciting Action is often better than all the data and insights in the
world |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1352 |
Inciting Action is often better
than all the data and insights in the world For perhaps 20 years I was fooled
by the lure of big data, business intelligence and ”forknowing” stuff. What I
learned, eventually, however slow I was is that although insight is
important. And data is important, especially in our current, algorithm …
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"screen-reader-text">Inciting Action is often better than all
the data and insights in the world</span> <span class=
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| 2018-Apr-30 |
Options and being comfortable now versus a better state later |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1348 |
Options and being comfortable now
versus a better state later Options. We all want Options. Often one of the
best ways of ensuring we keep having the best options making a choice of not
allowing to many options when doing the work that matters. Embracing some
discomfort now that we’re very comfortable and don’t “need” … <a href=
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and being comfortable now versus a better state later</span> <span
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| 2018-Apr-23 |
infinite more |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1346 |
continuing the talk on Infinite and finite games. game Windows and the
dont wait game. If its a stupid game stop playing it. ignore sunk
cost. doesnt matter how long you’ve been playing it. The ONE thinh that
matters is it giving you what you want? |
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| 2018-Apr-16 |
Level up your infinite game with your finite games |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1341 |
Level up your infinite game with
your finite games Some of my ramblings on what is an infinite game and why
should you care. What I think is not relevant and doent matter. What matters
is what you think, and if this mindset change your behaviour? Some examples
of the difference mindset of an infinite … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/level-up-your-infinite-game-with-your-finite-games/"
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finite games</span> <span
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| 2018-Apr-09 |
Discomfort precede |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1339 |
Discomfort precede change I
struggle alot with sounding “Energetic” in my voice on my podcast. This
episode contains some thoughts around the discomfort that always precedes
change. Because change doesn’t happen without discomfort. If that would be
the case you’d be there already. What discomfort do you struggle with that is
worth it for the … <a href=
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"more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Discomfort
precede</span> <span class=
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| 2018-Apr-02 |
Who would miss the work you put at their table? Infinite and finite games |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1332 |
Who would miss the work you put at
their table? Infinite and finite games Who would miss what that you put on
their table, in your unique way, your style, your methods? Who would miss you
if you were gone? What game are you playing and why? I hope you’ve got to
celebrate a great … <a href=
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"screen-reader-text">Who would miss the work you put at their
table? Infinite and finite games</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2018-Mar-26 |
Treat everyone you meet as a volunteer |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1328 |
Treat everyone you meet as a
volunteer “Accept the fact that you need to treat everyone like a volunteer”.
Is a quote by Peter Drucker ..if you want to help THEM, thus you, discover
and unleash THEIR potential. You cant fully control that process. But you can
encourage it. You can direct the energy and … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/treat-everyone-you-meet-as-a-volunteer/"
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volunteer</span> <span
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| 2018-Mar-19 |
3 games, 3 seats of power |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1325 |
3 games that matter 3 seats of
power 3 Games that matter inner game: the why you play, the words you
use in your head. outer game: current game/result you bring others infinite
game: 3 seats of power relationship power knowledge power
authority/role power Your Chosen Position And the position from where you …
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"more-link">Continue reading <span
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power</span> <span
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| 2018-Mar-12 |
Are you ready? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1321 |
Are you ready? .. for opportunity
when it comes knocking on YOUR door? I surely wasn’t, for most of the times
when it’s been past my door. LINK For example when I was interviewed by John
on his EOfire podcast. Having then more than a million downloads that scared
me into doing nothing more than … <a href=
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"more-link">Continue reading <span
class="screen-reader-text">Are you ready?</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2018-Mar-05 |
Learn more – know less |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1317 |
Learn more – know less It
isn’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble, its what you know for
sure, that just aint so Quote Mark Twain Its important to focus on the
learning part of ourself. Niches come and go. Business come and are great at
first but most markets … <a href=
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"more-link">Continue reading <span
class="screen-reader-text">Learn more – know less</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2018-Feb-26 |
Dare to ask questions. Dare to question your own worldview. Dare to help
others see what you see |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1313 |
Dare to ask questions. Dare to
question your own worldview. Dare to help others see what you see, still
respecting their perspective. Dare to speak out loud to a friend why you
might be wrong. Dare to help others by showing your vulnerability in what you
know and what you don’t. There is power in … <a href=
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your own worldview. Dare to help others see what you see</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2018-Feb-19 |
Behave like your manager, client or customer pay you double for your
result |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1311 |
What if you behaved like your
manager, client or customer payed you double for your results? Your ability
to ask yourself the important questions determines more than you think. Treat
your clients, customers, managers like they pay you a lot more than you do.
How would you behave differently if that was the case? What’s … <a
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"screen-reader-text">Behave like your manager, client or
customer pay you double for your result</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2018-Feb-12 |
Borrowing Happiness from tomorrow |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1307 |
Borrowing Happiness from tomorrow.
Making the best of today to enjoy both now and tomorrow Uncomfortable now
rather than resentful later – by Brene brown Don’t shrink, don’t Puff. Brave
and vulnerable at the same time. Healthy Boundaries When was the last time
you choose to set a boundary by choosing to be uncomfortable now … <a
href=
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tomorrow</span> <span
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| 2018-Feb-05 |
Eye of the Beholder |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1304 |
Eye of the Beholder Your life is
how you perceive it, not how you see it Everything is a projection. Both from
you onto others, and others onto you. Like Einstein said “Few are those who
see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts” We’re all biased. Own
that when you communicate. … <a href=
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"more-link">Continue reading <span
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| 2018-Jan-29 |
Owning your Strength |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1300 |
Owning your Strength i talk some
about one worldview of “owning your strength” What is yours? and how do you
embrace that worldview? This episode is very different. This is
because I took a course last week called VideoLabs over at VideoCreators.com
So today’s episode will actually be the audio-version my videos on YouTube …
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|
| 2018-Jan-22 |
Introduction to ComputerGames or new recruit at office |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1297 |
Lending some introduction and
creating passion examples from the Computer Game world. For example perhaps
you want to introduce your spouse to computer game play? It’s a lot of the
same synergies you want when introducing someone to your office. You want to
connect to what matters to them to create passion, commitment and
understanding … <a href=
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"screen-reader-text">Introduction to ComputerGames or new
recruit at office</span> <span
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| 2018-Jan-15 |
The Magic of Delegating Better |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1295 |
The Magic of Delegating Better Save
time and build peoples potential at the same time? Build relationships and
get better results at the same time? Does this sound too good to be true? Try
it and you’ll see for yourself. The only thing is. You won’t get a perfect
alignment with things you delegate. You … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-magic-of-delegating-better/"
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|
| 2018-Jan-08 |
State of Play: Focus on the relationships that matter |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1283 |
State of Play: Focus on the
relationships that matter Play is often used for doing better work, getting
better revenue with innovative new ideas. Play is also often used to build
teams, develop trust and enhancing effective behaviour. Its also very powerful
when used at home, to deepen the relationship with those that matter the …
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of Play: Focus on the relationships that matter</span> <span
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|
| 2018-Jan-01 |
One Focus |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1280 |
One Focus Work on one project at a
time. its the kind AND focused way towards accomplishing greatness What are
you working on that’s got you most fired up? Questions like that I ask all
the time. A trend I notice among my most successful friends is they rarely
list a bunch of “I want … <a href=
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"more-link">Continue reading <span
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|
| 2017-Dec-25 |
Invest in your sleep – investing in better results, connections &
empathy |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1273 |
Sleep affects the results of most
things. Yet it’s so easy to keep pushing investing in it forward. If you’re
lucky to have a few days of vacation right now. Don’t trade your chance for
some extra sleep away for all the attention seeking platforms out there.
Instead of sitting up following a trail of … <a href=
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"more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Invest in your sleep – investing in better
results, connections & empathy</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Dec-18 |
Time with your most important people.. and what story the data tells |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1269 |
Time with your most important
people.. and what story the data tells Blissful time with your most important
people? Check your stats and think again.. Christmas is coming up. Remind
yourself to be there slightly more than usual for those you care about. Be
mindful, present and let a few of those noises rest until … <a
href="http://RelationshipPower.com/a/time-with-your-most-important-people-and-what-story-the-data-tells/"
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with your most important people.. and what story the data tells</span>
<span class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2017-Dec-11 |
Exceptions to the rule. Dangers and inspiration |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1266 |
Exceptions to the rule. Dangers and
inspiration Beware there be dragons here. Exceptions to the rule. Something
we often long to become. Personally. While I deep to my core help people
consistently grow their potential, by stretching all they are right now I
still believe the media bombardments of “Exceptions to the rule” is the …
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to the rule. Dangers and inspiration</span> <span
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|
| 2017-Dec-04 |
Asking Right |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1260 |
Asking Right – a few thoughts on
how to ask questions: For advice or anything else. We are living in wonderful
times. It’s easier than ever to connect with people around the globe getting
help and advice. I believe must of us humans’ wants to help. IF everything
else is equal we will do the … <a href=
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"more-link">Continue reading <span class=
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|
| 2017-Nov-26 |
Your Attention in the modern age and how it affects your relationships
and everything |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1252 |
Your Attention in the modern age
and how it affects your relationships and everything Are you in control of
your attention investments? I think not, I sure know I am struggling with the
modern noise out there. Right now there is a near infinite set of algorithms
out there working to seer you away from … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/your_attention_in_the_modern_age/"
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"screen-reader-text">Your Attention in the modern age and how it
affects your relationships and everything</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Nov-20 |
Your Compass and your Map-Making skills, your maps Legends and your
ability to share Vision of what may be |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1247 |
Your Compass and your Map-Making
skills, your maps Legends and your ability to share Vision of what may be Are
you trying to follow a map when really need your compass more because the map
is outdated? Are you daring to put a flag down helping others get
there safely, within budget and time? … <a href=
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"screen-reader-text">Your Compass and your Map-Making skills,
your maps Legends and your ability to share Vision of what may
be</span> <span
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| 2017-Nov-13 |
Clarity, Clarity, Clarity – only then communicate |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1244 |
Clarity, Clarity, Clarity – only
then communicate Think “What is it for?” “WHO is this for?” Before you speak,
before you plan, before you execute. For example, when talking in order to
get things to happen: Own the emotions Own your body language Own your words
Own your results its your responsibility if you keep … <a href=
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| 2017-Nov-06 |
What’s YOUR style of play? This is not a quickfix/howto podcast
harvesting on fear of loss, need for guarantees or checklist. |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1237 |
What’s YOUR style of play? This is
not a quickfix/howto podcast harvesting on fear of loss, need for guarantees
or checklist. When I was a young leader of my first team I was
desperately longing for a quick checklist to follow. Something that could
guarantee if I followed its guidance I’d be great manager … <a
href="http://RelationshipPower.com/a/your_style_of-_play/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">What’s YOUR style of play? This is not a
quickfix/howto podcast harvesting on fear of loss, need for guarantees or
checklist.</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2017-Oct-30 |
The gap between ambition and effort-level |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1231 |
The gap between ambition and
effort-level. If there is a gap they become disconnected and thus not feeding
each other energy. This can sound something along these lines, but I’m sure
you have heard countless others just like it. “I want to be a star at X, I’m
just waiting for the next idol program … <a href=
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effort-level</span> <span
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| 2017-Oct-23 |
Choosing Your Manager, Clients, Students, Customers – basically who you
want to serve and why |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1226 |
Choosing Your Manager, Clients,
Students, Customers – basically who you want to serve and why I tap again on
the theme, you are the company you choose. And I want to highlight “your
manager.” Who are the people you’re serving? If you are going to ask yourself
right now, is he or she helping you … <a href=
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| 2017-Oct-16 |
Your time mostly comes from your actions |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1220 |
Your time mostly comes from your
actions You are your own source more than anyone else. Don’t blame others for
where you are. Step up to the responsibility of being you, or at least closer
to it right now. You become the company you keep. Ask yourself. Those
you invest most time with do … <a href=
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| 2017-Oct-09 |
Bimodal organisation Development & Digital Transformation still
require a People First mindset |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1218 |
Bimodal organisation Development
& Digital Transformation still require a People First mindset How
BiModal are your organisation percentage wise? How much do you “experiment”
to learn a better new normal? How well do you know your people so you know
who wants to embrace the mode 1 or our organisation and the mode 2. You …
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Digital Transformation still require a People First mindset</span>
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|
| 2017-Oct-02 |
Deflecting – Connect or Disconnect, dont deflect |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1214 |
Deflecting – Connect or Disconnect,
dont deflect Some thoughts on inner and outer deflections and what this does
to your ability to connect. Acknowledge the beam of positive energy sent to
you. Dare to look into the face of your scary monsters, doubt or shame and
you’ll find new ways to get the important job … <a href=
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deflect</span> <span
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|
| 2017-Sep-30 |
International Podcast Day |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1209 |
This is just an extra episode
celebrating International Podcast Day You’re listening to the 185th episode
of Relationship Power at work. I started podcasting 4 years ago. Please check
out the live celebration here. I hope you find another podcast that helps you
even more in your daily life. https://internationalpodcastday.com |
|
| 2017-Sep-25 |
Digital Transformation, Operational BI and the importance of
infrastructure and well oiled listening processes |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1202 |
Digital Transformation, Operational
BI and the importance of infrastructure and well oiled listening processes
Now is the time to really thank the heroes at infrastructure for their
hard work, because it’s about to pay off when all organisations starts to
realize “information is their most valuable asset” alongside with the digital
transformation required to … <a href=
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the importance of infrastructure and well oiled listening
processes</span> <span
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| 2017-Sep-17 |
A tribute to Seth Godin’s altMBA |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1194 |
A tribute to Seth Godin’s altMBA
Some thoughts its lasting effects now two years after attending Mars 2016 I
completed Seth Godin’s alltMBA, it was the 4th time Seth held it. I’ve
learned, applied and had great success with Seth’s advices over the years so
joining was an easy choice, even if the course was … <a href=
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| 2017-Sep-11 |
Train your imagination – What you are unaware of controls your options |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1192 |
Train your imagination – What you
are unaware of controls your options I’d claim your most important thing is
your imagination, combined with your focused attention and execution How
often do you explore “what may be”? Are you executing on your ideas? Like
Tony Robbins say “stay in your head and you’re dead” You can’t … <a
href="http://RelationshipPower.com/a/train-your-imagination-what-you-are-unaware-of-controls-your-options/"
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unaware of controls your options</span> <span
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|
| 2017-Sep-04 |
The Purpose of Analytics is Change. Listen to the 4+Arrows within every
dot on every graph |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1186 |
The Purpose of Analytics is Change.
Listen to the 4+Arrows within every dot on every graph The Purpose of
Analytics is Change. It’s not enough to become aware. It’s not enough to sit
on the IT side of this only, you need to help to make it happen. It’s not
enough to predict the optimal … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-purpose-of-analytics-is-change-listen-to-the-4arrows-within-every-dot-on-every-graph/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">The
Purpose of Analytics is Change. Listen to the 4+Arrows within every dot on
every graph</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Aug-28 |
Analytics & algorithms – enhancing beyond your own direct experience |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1184 |
Analytics & algorithms –
enhancing beyond your own direct experience Can you Trust your own direct
experience as an answer for the future? You can’t trust algorithms blindly,
yet you’re unaware of how they’re used EVERYWHERE in ways that affect you way
more than you know. Yet often some KPI’s become so important and untouchable,
… <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/analytics-algorithms-enhancing-beyond-your-own-direct-experience/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Analytics & algorithms – enhancing
beyond your own direct experience</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Aug-21 |
Come Storms, Ebb, Tide and high water – I will be here lighting your path
toward this position |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1180 |
Come Storms, Ebb, Tide and high
water – I will be here lighting your path toward this position Sometimes
metaphors gets a picture in our head that is so energizing we just have to
act on it. In this episode I talk about the waves of time in your life. How
we all encounter high … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/come-storms-ebb-tide-and-high-water-i-will-be-here-lighting-your-path-toward-this-position/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Come Storms, Ebb, Tide and high water – I
will be here lighting your path toward this position</span> <span
class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Aug-14 |
Embrace your draft: responsibly & publicly |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1177 |
Embrace your draft: responsibly
& publicly Dont hide behind a draft, make it real. Dont hide behind
perfect, share your draft. Ship something today that will help someone else.
This episode is actually two episodes. One the one listed here, and behind
it, after it. The one I recorded first, then felt was not worthy … <a
href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/embrace-your-draft-responsibly-publicly/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Embrace your draft: responsibly &
publicly</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Aug-07 |
Effects of having a contingency plan BEFORE you need it |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1174 |
Effects of having a contingency
plan BEFORE you need it What’s a contingency plan for you? For me it’s all
about maintaining the ability to execute effectively. Its easy to get lost in
agreements, SLA:s, technology or just the mental idea confusing “keeping
busy” with what is actually generating results. When you are starting
business … <a class="more-link" href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/effects-of-having-a-contingency-plan-before-you-need-it/">
Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Effects of
having a contingency plan BEFORE you need it</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a>. |
|
| 2017-Jul-31 |
Encourage, Encourage, Encourage – don’t punish instead be clear and
positive about the future |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1171 |
Encourage, Encourage, Encourage –
don’t punish instead be clear and positive about the future Encouragement is
mightier than compliance long-term. Try to catch yourself whenever you get
carried away in frustration, or anger this is just your short-term behaviour
that most often will hurt the long term potential. The alternative cost of
you venting your … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/encourage-encourage-encourage-dont-punish-instead-be-clear-and-positive-about-the-future/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Encourage, Encourage, Encourage – don’t
punish instead be clear and positive about the future</span> <span
class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jul-24 |
Exponential results – ways to get that 1% behavior that yields 99% of
your result |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1165 |
Exponential results ways to get
that 1% behavior that yields 99% of your result Seneca said “Luck is a matter
of preparation meeting opportunity” – Are YOU ready for opportunity with 99
times your current results AND saving your most scarce resourse, time, while
embracing it? Does Routine Really Help Us Get to Our Goals? … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/does-routine-really-help-us-get-to-our-goals/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Exponential results – ways to get that 1%
behavior that yields 99% of your result</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jul-17 |
Seeing things from others, zoomed-out perspective. |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1162 |
Seeing things from others,
zoomed-out perspective. Clients perspectives, your customers perspective and
your own perspective. Few are those who see with their own eyes and
feel with their own hearts. Quote Albert Einstein We often get so entangled
with the people around us that we sometimes forget that no-one else
ever align with us … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/seeing-things-from-others-zoomed-out-perspective/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Seeing things from others, zoomed-out
perspective.</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jul-10 |
Doves & Hawks, Relationship Power and the Fast, Connected Economy |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1156 |
Doves & Hawks, Relationship
Power and the Fast, Connected Economy or the Curves of Evolution in the Fast
Instant Access Connected Economy Doves and hawks are both adorable
species. And we can learn from them as well especially for the early managers.
What would you like to become? A hawk? Or a dove? Why … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/doves_and_hawkes_curvesofevolutionfastconnectedeconomy/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Doves & Hawks, Relationship Power and
the Fast, Connected Economy</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jul-03 |
Know your people – and some thoughts on KPIs, metrics and measurements |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1153 |
Know your people – and some
thoughts on KPIs, metrics and measurements ..or Key Metrics Performance
Indicators when the order to “Round Down Cost” inevitably comes This is a
managers’s guide on leveraging key metrics on getting to know their people
effective behaviour better. This will also help you improve your relationship
at work by … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/know-your-people-and-some-thoughts-on-kpis-metrics-and-measurements/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Know your people – and some thoughts on
KPIs, metrics and measurements</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jun-26 |
Behaviour Follows Assumptions – You become the company you keep |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1150 |
Behaviour Follows Assumptions – You
become the company you keep The power of the group you surround yourself with
are strong. Imagine positive intent. Do you surround yourself with people who
imagine the positive intent of others? I’m asking yourself right now – who
comes to mind that does that? Do you draw blank? Does … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/behaviour-follows-assumptions-you-become-the-company-you-keep/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Behaviour
Follows Assumptions – You become the company you keep</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jun-22 |
How to Create a Deeper Relationship with Your Online Audience with Cliff
Ravenscraft |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1141 |
How to Create a Deeper Relationship
with Your Online Audience with Cliff Ravenscraft “We have the power within
ourselves to literally change the world.” – Cliff In this episode, we will
learn about how to create a powerful and positive impact to your online
audience. Cliff will talk about how to deepen your relationship with … <a
href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/how-to-create-a-deeper-relationship-with-your-online-audience-with-cliff-ravenscraft/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">How to Create a Deeper Relationship with
Your Online Audience with Cliff Ravenscraft</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jun-19 |
Freedom can best be created before you need it – leaving that choice to
others will make you a commodity. |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1138 |
Freedom can best be created before
you need it – leaving that choice to others will make you a commodity. The
Digital Era In these fast paced, digital era, most of the things that we do
has an equivalent of a software or app that makes things easier for us. It’s
scary and wonderful at … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/freedom-can-best-be-created-before-you-need-it-leaving-that-choice-to-others-will-make-you-a-commodity/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Freedom can best be created before you need
it – leaving that choice to others will make you a commodity.</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jun-12 |
Intention and Attention |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1129 |
Intention and Attention Train in
guarding your attention. It’s the lifeblood of all of us. If we’re mindful of
our attention we choose if we should feel inspired or judged by another
person’s comments, behaviour or achievements. Your awareness about yourself
is what makes you get energy or loose it whenever you see that carrot … <a
href="http://RelationshipPower.com/a/intention-and-attention/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Intention and Attention</span>
<span class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jun-05 |
Go Beyond your muscle failure. Build your business and character like a
personal trainer. |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1125 |
Go Beyond your muscle
failure. Build your business and character like a personal trainer. Go
Beyond yourself often towards muscle failure. That’s the only time growth
happen. Power speed reading, comfort zone extending, processes, group
development anything. if you find yourself succeeding most of the time take
bigger steps, if not then take smaller steps … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/go-beyond-your-muscle-failure-build-your-business-and-character-like-a-personal-trainer/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Go Beyond your muscle failure. Build your
business and character like a personal trainer.</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-May-29 |
My weird honours your weird |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1122 |
My weird honors your weird The bell
curve has changed thanks to the internet, the connection economy and “near
instant access” to most things. It’s easier than ever before to make an
impact, to help people beyond the horizon. When I grew up we all tried to
conform to the same norm. Marketing was loud … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/my-weird-honours-your-weird/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">My weird honours your weird</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-May-22 |
Take your positions – Who do you want to help and why? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1120 |
Take your positions – Who do you
want to help and why? There is a reason why the instructions tell you to put
on the air mask on yourself FIRST: Before helping your kid, friend or
co-worker. Without Air, you will quickly forget the long-term priorities, and
you can make things worse while you’re unable … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/take-your-positions-who-do-you-want-to-help-and-why/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Take your positions – Who do you want to
help and why?</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-May-15 |
Tension, Empathy & Sympathy – Responsibility from different
perspectives |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1116 |
Tension, Empathy & Sympathy –
Responsibility from different perspectives Empathy. Seeing the perspective of
others. Walking in someone else’s shoes. Dare to face the unknown of the
minds of those around you. Dare to embrace that they might think you’re
wrong. They might be right, and you’re not. Embracing that you’re having an
impact on … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/tension-empathy-sympathy-responsibility-from-different-perspectives/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Tension, Empathy & Sympathy –
Responsibility from different perspectives</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-May-08 |
Exciting times – What’s exciting for you might not be exciting for
someone else |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1113 |
Exciting times – What’s exciting
for you might not be exciting for someone else We’re living in exciting
times. I’m sure every generation before me has said the same words, felt the
same. What I’m thinking on right now specifically is the instant auto
feedback we’ve got available for becoming better. Live feedback in our …
<a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/exciting-times-whats-exciting-for-you-might-not-be-exciting-for-someone-else/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Exciting times – What’s exciting for you
might not be exciting for someone else</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-May-01 |
Why are you doing this? Why High Standards help you – Why Commitment
increase attention |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1110 |
Why are you doing this? Why High
Standards help you – Why Commitment increase attention Quite often I
get the question “why do you do this?” Some talk about “why the commitment on
consistency” others “why for free when you have people who are thankful for
the opportunity to pay you for your knowledge … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/why-are-you-doing-this-why-high-standards-help-you-why-commitment-increase-attention/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Why are you doing this? Why High Standards
help you – Why Commitment increase attention</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Apr-24 |
Throughput thoughts |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1108 |
Throughput thoughts Some thoughts
on intention and results, and the passage required to archive it. This is
high and low, tech and people. I guess some people would call it random
ramblings. Some thoughts on email/phone/video/actual meeting Phone thumbs throughput
and making replies easy and effective. Delegation, effect and not being
superman. Or that if … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/throughput-thoughts/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Throughput
thoughts</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Apr-17 |
Full Contact play with your Anti-thesis |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1105 |
Full Contact play with your
Anti-thesis Get the habit of embracing an anti-thesis to your belief every
now and then to deepen your learning on your topic, or that it’s time to
leave while “on top” Perhaps get together over dinner with some mastermind
friends on a yearly basis and ask everyone to bring a … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/full-contact-play-with-your-anti-thesis/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Full Contact play with your
Anti-thesis</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Apr-10 |
thoughts on becomming a commodity and choosing your position |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1099 |
Right now forces are gathering to
make you a commodity. It already happened all around you. Uber, Spotify,
Travel-agents etc. The middleman is cut out and a proxy service is censoring
out everything that doesn’t adapt. In the consultant nice, we have consultant
brokers, offshore resources and a lot of things helping clients get their …
<a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/commodity_and_choosing_your_position/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">thoughts
on becomming a commodity and choosing your position</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Apr-03 |
Race don’t chase – some thoughts on awards |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1096 |
When presenting a week back I got
the question by a person in the audience on any advice in becoming awarded by
eWork just like I did. (ework awarded me Consultant of year 2013) My reply
was a recommendation to not chase awards. Instead focus on working towards
excellence at your chosen trade. Focus on … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/race-dont-chase-some-thoughts-on-awards/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Race don’t chase – some thoughts on
awards</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Mar-27 |
Mind your attitude – let go of labels |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1094 |
Mind your attitude – let go of
labels I believe you, me and most of us need to constantly remind yourself
before the mindset becomes the new normal for us, the new natural. When you
start to take action your mind will resist, will encourage you in all sorts
of ways to step aside, to … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/mind-your-attitude-let-go-of-labels/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Mind your attitude – let go of labels</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Mar-20 |
The Power of a Delta.txt file of how things should and could be |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1090 |
The Power of a Delta.txt file of
how things should and could be When you’re starting new, for example at a new
site, new employer or anything you’re in a golden situation to see the
patterns in the workplace with a fresh eye. Perhaps you’re noting that everyone
is walking across the river to collect … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-of-a-delta-txt-file-of-how-things-should-and-could-be/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Power of a Delta.txt file of how things
should and could be</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Mar-13 |
Simple – not easy |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1084 |
Simple – not easy Simple and
Easy is not the same ting yet I find that over the years most people confuse
the too, sometimes myself included. We want easy yet we already know the
recipe for what we want is simple. Rarely is it as easy as an instant success
because if that … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/simple-not_easy/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Simple – not easy</span> <span
class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Mar-06 |
Gratefulness & Respect – your choice of words matter |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1081 |
Gratefulness & Respect – your
choice of words matter Gratefulness serves you in so many ways beyond here
and now. Let is invigor you with energy and joy that benefits others too. Let
it give you a forward motion for what you have not yet accomplished but will
be done with before today is done. … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/gratefulness-respect-your-choice-of-words-matter/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Gratefulness & Respect – your choice of
words matter</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Feb-20 |
Your Life is not a prologue, don’t wait, the time is now |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1076 |
You don’t need a big chunk
of time to start. Are you sure you’re not waiting and wasting valuable time
investments. In essence, are you stuck in the prelude to your own life? Its
easy that Works becomes the main chapters in our book, when in reality you
CAN build something small steps by … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/your-life-is-not-a-prologue-dont-wait-the-time-is-now/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Your Life is not a prologue, don’t wait,
the time is now</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Feb-13 |
Digital Connections, and the power of the system and our emotions of
feeling connected. |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1073 |
Digital Connections, and the power
of the system and our emotions of feeling connected. Right now we’re
attention flooded. Many use systems to keep up with friends. We no longer use
DIRECT-CONNECTION to most things we depend on today. Despite we know that
face-to-face meeting delivers the most metadata in our discussion, with a
loss … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/digital-connections-and-the-power-of-the-system-and-our-emotions-of-feeling-connected/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Digital Connections, and the power of the
system and our emotions of feeling connected.</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Feb-07 |
There is a message for you everywhere |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1079 |
There is a message for you
everywhere. If you’re looking for it you’ll always find a lesson, anywhere,
at all times, from everyone If you’re actively looking for it, I also
believe people around you will bloom in areas unexpected. Helping both you
and them connect better AND get more done. Are you listening? |
|
| 2017-Feb-06 |
You become the company you keep |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1069 |
You become the company you keep
Another way of saying it is “you are the average of the X people you spend
the most time with.” I believe WHO you invest the most of your time with is
the most important decision of your life. In the right company most things
seem easy. Often you … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/you-become-the-company-you-keep/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">You become the company you keep</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jan-30 |
time is your most precious investment – become aware |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1060 |
Time is your most precious
investment – become aware Where you invest your time, and furthermore
WHO you invest your time with is the most important decision in your life. It
affects everything. The impact you will have on this world, your health and
achievements just to name a few. Life if full of … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/time-is-your-most-precious-investment-become-aware/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">time is your most precious investment –
become aware</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jan-23 |
Listen for what is not said + John Lee Dumas Entrepreneurs on Fire second
Kickstarter |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1053 |
Listen for what is not said + John
Lee Dumas Entrepreneurs on Fire second Kickstarter How often do you actively
listen for what is NOT being said? Focus on what the data is saying, not the
highest talker Focus on what the body is doing, instead of the head is saying
Focus on your intended … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/listen-for-what-is-not-said-john-lee-dumas-entrepreneurs-on-fire-second-kickstarter/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Listen
for what is not said + John Lee Dumas Entrepreneurs on Fire second
Kickstarter</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jan-16 |
Age of Instant Access and Connection Analytics |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1048 |
We’re in an Age of Instant Access
and Connection Analytics – food for thoughts Instant Access to so many things
today, and yet more is coming every day. How does that affect relationship
building and the power to help more people get what they want? Today most of
us live in a connection economics economy. … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/age-of-instant-access-and-connection-analytics/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Age of Instant Access and Connection
Analytics</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jan-09 |
Meta-Memory, Meta-Me – Self-confusion and Clarity, Psychosynthesis & Imagery Exercises |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1043 |
Meta-Memory, Meta-Me –
Self-confusion and Clarity, Psychosynthesis & Imagery Exercises
Some say our Memory is “us”, that we are the core of what we remember.
Your achievements, friends who has always been there for you and the people,
activities and things you love. Study after study prove we can’t trust our
memory. Yet most … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/meta-memory_clarity_psychosynthesis/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Meta-Memory,
Meta-Me – Self-confusion and Clarity, Psychosynthesis & Imagery
Exercises</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2017-Jan-02 |
Age of Access, Virtual Reality and Digital_Twins |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1038 |
It’s wonderful living in the world
of Instant Access like we’re doing right now. And Virtual Reality can really
help build a connection to the individuals around us , but we also have to
remember to build live connections around us. If we don’t really “need”
anyone since we get everything delivered tailored to us … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/age-of-access-virtual-reality-and-digital_twins/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Age of Access, Virtual Reality and
Digital_Twins</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Dec-26 |
Nobody owes you is a mindset that often helps us build better
relationships |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1035 |
Nobody owes you is a mindset that
often helps us build better relationships. Owning how we respond and act to
feelings that emerge within us will change your life trajectory more than
anything. Complaining about someone else getting a promotion that you long
for won’t make your own results any better. Ask yourself instead if … <a
href=
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helps us build better relationships</span> <span class=
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|
| 2016-Dec-19 |
Connection is a feeling – Christmas and other Rare activities |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1031 |
Connection is a feeling – Christmas
and other Rare activities Most often its thru feeling we connect to
people. And what we connect to in a story is most often individually. I’ve
had people come up to me after a talk saying they appreciated my show of
vulnerability, others from the exact same words … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/connection-is-a-feeling-christmas-and-other-rare-activities/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Connection is a feeling – Christmas and
other Rare activities</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Dec-12 |
Talking about performance, behaviours and effect |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1028 |
Talking about performance to make
behaviours more effective with authenticity and without acting
Performance, when we’re taking on an act we are really distancing ourselves
from people. It’s the total opposite from connecting with people. Yet, during
the 20+ years I’ve attended leadership classes there’s always some that wants
the quick-check list as if … <a href=
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"screen-reader-text">Talking about performance, behaviours and
effect</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Dec-05 |
Gratitude for others no? Benefits of making it easy for others to say no. |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1024 |
Gratitude for others no? Benefits
of making it easy for others to say no. Embracing reality for a new, more
effective way I deeply believe in focusing on the one thing until
success (quote from my friend John Lee Dumas) and I’ve had multiple casts
about the power of saying no. Say no, guarding … <a href=
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for others no? Benefits of making it easy for others to say no.</span>
<span class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Nov-28 |
Virtual Reality means business of Generosity, might even help move away
from Self-centredness |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1022 |
VR – Virtual Reality means business
of Generosity, might even help move away from Self-centredness I believe the
most common way to major success is helping others. Letting go of that
self-centredness that envelop us all when we are in deep stress for example.
And I’m sure you feel that it’s not distributed equally around … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/virtual-reality-means-business-of-generosity-might-even-help-move-away-from-self-centredness/"
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"screen-reader-text">Virtual Reality means business of
Generosity, might even help move away from Self-centredness</span>
<span class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Nov-21 |
Virtual Reality effects on Business and relationship building |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1019 |
Virtual Reality effects on Business
and relationship building Corporations invests enormous amounts of “could
have been results” into meetings, and most of those are over the phone, web
conferences and other semi-virtual ways to connect. Globalisations have
increased this way of working even more. At the same time, most of us are
aware of the … <a href=
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"screen-reader-text">Virtual Reality effects on Business and
relationship building</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Nov-14 |
Help-Others and Self-Help |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1012 |
Help-Others and Self-Help I often
think about how come the amount of teachings around “Helping Others” is not
anything near the amount of exposure of people, method and processes to
“Self-Help”. When I looked at Categories in two different Quote-Sites I found
300 “Helping Others” Quotes and 4000 for “Self-Help”. Likewise when I shopped
digital … <a href=
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"more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Help-Others
and Self-Help</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Nov-07 |
Your way is understandable |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1009 |
Your way is understandable
Sometimes it feels hard to accept the method of path taken by someone else.
Accept their way, their reasoning. Doesn’t mean you have to accept the
results OR hurts or thinks you see in your perspective along their way, along
their path, along your projection of their path. That’s the … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/your-way-is-understandable/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span
class="screen-reader-text">Your way is
understandable</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Oct-31 |
Attention Waste – Is Your Time Investments and efforts making a
difference for the better? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1005 |
Attention Waste – Is Your Time
Investments and efforts making a difference for the better? The most
brilliant minds of our era invests their time and attention in creating
better and better clickbait to get everyone else to invest time and attention
“ON” their clickbait and the tracking trail it generates in pursue of
revenue. … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/attention_waste/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Attention Waste – Is Your Time Investments
and efforts making a difference for the better?</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Oct-24 |
Information wants to be free |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=1002 |
Information wants to be free That
is one of the “Alternatives” to the info, status or just Social talk you are
having right now. Another way of seeing it is, consider this the
“alternative cost” in what you COULD have compared to what you might be
getting right now. Notice the difference when … <a href=
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class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Information wants to be free</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Oct-17 |
Relationship Power and other Powers |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=998 |
Relationship Power and other Powers
Relationship Power. Role Power. Authority Power. Situational powers.
Accidental powers. Temporary powers. Don’t let unawareness put other in
powerful situations for you. Don’t forget that there is most often a COST for
you when using a power. For example if you forget that it’s your
responsibility to ensure you have … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/relationship-power-and-other-powers/"
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Powers</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Oct-10 |
Speed determines the value of almost EVERYTHING value, and every
connection |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=994 |
Speed determines the value of
almost EVERYTHING value, and every connection Everything has a game window,
everyone you talk or don’t talk to. Everything you do or don’t do. Time to
Market. Start backwards from when its needed, not from when its “possible” to
start. Learning to speak before or after a visiting a country … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/speed-determines-the-value-of-almost-everything-value-and-every-connection/"
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"screen-reader-text">Speed determines the value of almost
EVERYTHING value, and every connection</span> <span class=
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|
| 2016-Oct-03 |
Turning Visible – creating trust |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=988 |
Turning Visible – creating trust A
small talk on how sometimes trying to hide something makes a crater for all
to see, making it harder to see who we really are beyond it. sometimes
helping too much or too little makes us less visible, Making it harder to
connect to the work that matters. Making … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/turning-visible-creating-trust/"
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"screen-reader-text">Turning Visible – creating
trust</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Sep-26 |
Seek to invest most of your time with Grateful Action takers |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=985 |
Seek to invest most of your time
with Grateful Action takers You’re really the average of the five
people you spend the most time. Who you spend your time with is one of the
most important decisions to keep up with in your life. Your time is the only
resouce you cant get more … <a href=
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Grateful Action takers</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Sep-19 |
Embraceing your Potential |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=978 |
Embraceing your Potential consists
of a lot of things, below is just a few of them. I personally dont think it
matters where you start though, as long as you start thinking about it, start
acting to become it. This cast is dedicated to exploring your potential from
these angles. Imagination is often the … <a href=
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"more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Embraceing your Potential</span>
<span class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Sep-12 |
Own your results – own your communication |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=974 |
Own your results – own your
communication Manager-tools.com often talk about “communication is what the
listener does”. So what does this mean for you? For me it means that if I
dont get the behaviour or effect I want there is NO point in ever saying “I’ve
told you before”. If I’m not getting what … <a href=
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communication</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Sep-05 |
Refueling others |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=967 |
Refueling others Where does your fuel and generator of energy align with
those around you? What does those around you get fuel from and how can you
help them get more of it without it costing others? is that energy constantly
renewing or does it drain out for you or those around you? |
|
| 2016-Aug-29 |
What fuels you? What fuels those around you? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=959 |
What fuels you? What fuels those
around you? Most often we do things, without really thinking, about what
gives us fuel. Where in this activity does my energy really come from? If it
comes at all? It’s easy to think we get energy from an activity when we’re
really just appreciating the feeling after compliments, … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/what-fuels-you_what-fuels-those-around-you/"
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"screen-reader-text">What fuels you? What fuels those around
you?</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Aug-22 |
Delayed Reward, Alternative Costs – Build your relationships for the long
run |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=957 |
Delayed Reward, Alternative Costs –
Build your relationships for the long run if you seek to maximize what you
get out of someone thats rarely relationship-building. thats transactions and
might work in the short run but rarely in the long run. (this isnt in the
cast but when I’m writing this I’m thinking of “why … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/delayed-reward-alternative-costs-build-your-relationships-for-the-long-run/"
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your relationships for the long run</span> <span class=
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|
| 2016-Aug-15 |
Listen to people but trust the numbers |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=953 |
Listen to people but trust the
numbers – Ensure you measure the right thing for others, not just whats easy
to measure or makes you look good. Continous measurement makes you look
trustworthy. Its easier to trust a currently bad number when you know you can
trust the good ones too. Than seeing a good … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/listen-to-people-but-trust-the-numbers/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Listen to people but trust the
numbers</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Aug-08 |
Recruiting – when to say no, NO and when to say yes |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=949 |
Recruiting – when to say no, NO and
when to say yes. A quick cast about three thoughts on recruiting. I
personally find this worth thinking about for recruiters AND anyone that
wants more out of work. And I’m not talking just about more results out of
work. Just my ideas – the important … <a href=
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say yes</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Aug-01 |
it’s not about you – focus on the behaviour you can change not the stuff
you cant |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=945 |
it’s not about you Sometimes we
need to remind ourselves that everything isn’t about me. Sometimes people
around you behave in ways that makes things difficult for you. Making it hard
for you to “imagine positive intent” when you see the effect if has on your
results. People didn’t start their activity aiming to ruin … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/its-not-about-you-focus-on-the-behaviour-you-can-change-not-the-stuff-you-cant/"
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"screen-reader-text">it’s not about you – focus on the behaviour
you can change not the stuff you cant</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Jul-25 |
Credentials Decay, Results last longer. Change is the only constant |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=940 |
Credentials Decay, Results last
longer. Change is the only constant In todays modern world credentials isn’t
what it used to be so its more important than ever to show your results. To
quickly help others see what results you can help them archive by listing
your accomplishments AND your ability to listen hard and change … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/credentials-decay-results-last-longer-change-is-the-only-constant/"
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"screen-reader-text">Credentials Decay, Results last longer.
Change is the only constant</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Jul-18 |
Give first individually, Listen first
– Relationship power comes later |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=936 |
Give first individually, Listen
first – Relationship power comes later Schedule five minutes every day
to just get to know the people around you. Listen hard to what they value and
make a note of sharing anything you think might help them, might help them
archive their dreams, their family. Small or big. |
|
| 2016-Jul-11 |
Listening beyond what isn’t being said |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=930 |
Listening beyond what isn’t being
said The most important thing in communication is listening for what isn’t
being said according to Peter Drucker. Listen for the silence We all carry
invisible baggage into our meetings. Those can both make it harder and easier
to connect to someone. Words in the present conversations can take a … <a
href=
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said</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Jul-04 |
Commitment , Control &
Contribution and the speed of Trust |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=926 |
Commitment , Control &
Contribution and the speed of Trust Most of us was trained in compliance as a
kid for countless of hours. Hours that could have been invested into training
us to instead in seeking ways to contribute in our own unique way to help
others and ourselves. Many of us has also … <a href=
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the speed of Trust</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Jun-27 |
Envy and gratitude |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=921 |
Envy and gratitude Envy is a human
emotion that is easy to fall prey to. It can be harnessed to make you
do more, make you archive move but my experience it’s one of the more
common paths to the dark side (sounds like I’m quoting Start Wars doesnt it?)
Envy can easily cause splinters … <a href=
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"more-link">Continue reading <span
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|
| 2016-Jun-20 |
What work matters when you strip everything else away? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=914 |
What work really matters when you strip everything else away? What will
live beyond you? This cast is about your inner question of what what is
important to you beyond all that urgency, all that noise? its a powerful
question and only you hold the answer |
|
| 2016-Jun-13 |
Grit and Generosity |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=910 |
Grit and Generosity I really
believe Generosity is a great compass towards your success. Ask yourself
where in your life, where you invest hard work in creating things, You still
don’t you mind others carbon copy your work and using it to help other people.
Of course we have to set boundaries to our time … <a href=
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|
| 2016-Jun-06 |
Let Go – one way to become free to invite the new |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=904 |
Let Go – one way to become free to invite the new What and where is your
safe haven? Who would you invite there and why? How can you get more of that
and share that with others? |
|
| 2016-May-30 |
matters beyond your comfort zone |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=899 |
Most things that matter to use on a
deeper level lies beyond our own comfort zone. Accept your discomfort, and
the feelings from it. Its OK. We all experience that. Then take a step to
dare to look and act beyond those feelings and eventually that which was
beyond you, is now your new normal. |
|
| 2016-May-23 |
if your job and results where a fantasy story – Would you do anything
differently? – if so why, where and for whom? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=897 |
If your job and results where a
fantasy story. Would you do anything differently? – if so why, where and for
whom? Sometimes playing with our mind is a great way to open up
thoughts that might linger beyond what we logically can access. Sometimes we
mentally shield ourselves for allowing thinking certain thoughts … <a
href=
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story – Would you do anything differently? – if so why, where and for
whom?</span> <span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-May-16 |
Mirrors and actions beyond Reflection |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=890 |
Mirrors and actions beyond
Reflection Your actions and attitude to others speak way more about you than
your mirror’s reflection. Its worth reflecting over that reflection.
Sometimes I think most of us often try to catch a glimpse of ourselves in the
mirror – wondering what others think of our appearance. Yet at the … <a
href=
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| 2016-May-09 |
Betrayal |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=886 |
Sometimes you encounter the dark side of helping people. Sometimes you
invest your generosity into people who does the opposite back. How do you
deal with it? |
|
| 2016-May-02 |
Breathing – Cure of Stress and giver of Focus, Clarity and shape |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=877 |
Breathing – Cure of Stress and
giver of Focus, Clarity and shape Breathing is a great cure for stress. Take
four deep breaths and your worldview might change. Of course it won’t change
the world. But your new mindset, clarity and actions on the new insight
might. It might help you see things more clearly. … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/breathing-cure-of-stress-and-giver-of-focus-clarity-and-shape/"
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Focus, Clarity and shape</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Apr-25 |
Projecting yourself onto other people – beyond the effect you probably
want |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=872 |
Projecting yourself onto other
people – beyond the effect you probably want Take a minute to think about
your own patters. What do you usually notice about the world? What does that
tell you about yourself and your values? How would you like it to be?
How can you help others change things that … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/projecting-yourself-onto-other-people-beyond-the-effect-you-probably-want/"
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yourself onto other people – beyond the effect you probably want</span>
<span class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Apr-18 |
Opportunity Stress |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=867 |
Opportunity Stress We live in a
world of abundance. You can do so much. One person can change (parts of) the
world. This is a perspective of Alternative Cost, and just some thoughts on
stress and fear of uncontrollability from the great book The Unthinkable –
who survives when disaster strikes and why
www.amazon.com/Unthinkable-survives-when-disaster-strikes-ebook/dp/B0031RS9NY
… <a href=
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|
| 2016-Apr-11 |
Criticism is futile in driving change |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=862 |
Criticism is futile in driving
change I’m re listening to “How to win friends and influence people” by Dale
Carnegie – I do that every 5th year or so. A great way to remind myself – and
to pick up thing I wasn’t ready to notice a perspective on earlier in my
life. I very … <a href=
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|
| 2016-Apr-04 |
Life can be unexpected short – Show gratitude while you can |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=856 |
Life can be unexpected short – Show
gratitude while you can. Life is change. People you take for granted might
not be near you tomorrow. Due to health, change of job, friends moving out of
town or anything might happen. Embrace reality while you have it. Take care
of your body. Reality is brutal. Life … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/life-can-be-unexpected-short-show-gratitude-while-you-can/"
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gratitude while you can</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Mar-28 |
I am defined by my fears and strengths – by not limited to neither |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=852 |
I am defined by my fears and
strengths – by not limited to neither I think both our strengths AND your
fears easily puts us in corners that we are not aware off. Embrace our fears
– don’t try to push it away. likewise aim for not trying to be limited by it.
Easier said … <a href=
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not limited to neither</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Mar-21 |
interview with John Lee Dumas EntrepreneurOnFire |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=846 |
I (Ric) interviews John Lee Dumas
from EntrepreneurOnFire on how to connect to raving fans, Leadership and
getting results. We talked about “if you want to BE, DO!” and its ok not to
be great when you start, if you keep doing, you will become better. We also
talked some about generosity + the power … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/interview-with-john-lee-dumas-entrepreneuronfire/"
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"screen-reader-text">interview with John Lee Dumas
EntrepreneurOnFire</span> <span
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|
| 2016-Mar-15 |
Learn to Learn new things – climbing example |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=841 |
Learn to Learn new things –
climbing example When learning new things – its easy to forget how much more
power someone who is skilled can have than a beginner. its so easy to cling
to what you think is effective instead of daring to try embracing the bigger
way. Look for what is working … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/learn-to-learn-new-things-climbing-example/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Learn to Learn new things – climbing
example</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Mar-07 |
Embrace tension, potential strength, Life and the longbow idea of
requirements of change |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=833 |
Embrace tension, potential
strength, Life and the longbow idea of requirements of change Just
some ramblings about comparing life to a longbow, tension to stress. all
stress being inner stress. About becomming aware if that tension is healthy
and when you should apply it, and when the tension is really robbing you and
others … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/embrace-tension-potential-strength-life-and-the-longbow-idea-of-requirements-of-change/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Embrace tension, potential strength, Life
and the longbow idea of requirements of change</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2016-Feb-29 |
Communicate on the level they want AND the level you need for effect.
DiSC is one way to become more aware of your communication
strengths and how they are perceived by others. And how you can adapt your
style to those you talk to for a way better effect |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=828 |
Communicate on the level they want AND the level you need for effect.
DiSC is one way to become more aware of your communication strengths and how
they are perceived by others. And how you can adapt your style to those you
talk to for a way better effect |
|
| 2016-Feb-22 |
100 episodes – giving away 3×10 Leadership Coaching Sessions + 30 kindle
books – Be Generous & Walk Your Talk |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=825 |
Celebrating 100 episodes I’m giving
away 3×10 Leadership Coaching Sessions + 30 kindle books and talking
about Be Generous & Walk Your Talk. ..and some “be kind to yourself” when
starting to drive change. it’s tough in the beginning but it gets easier as
we keep showing up to do the work. 100 episodes already? … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/100-episodes-giving-away-3x10-leadership-coaching-sessions-30-kindle-books-be-generous-walk-your-talk/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">100 episodes – giving away 3×10 Leadership
Coaching Sessions + 30 kindle books – Be Generous & Walk Your
Talk</span> <span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2016-Feb-15 |
Stuck is just most often just a mindset |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=818 |
Stuck is just most often just a
mindset “From where I am now I can’t see my way forward” – this talk is about
why I love climbing and how much benefit I have had from my mindsets trained
when climbing – in both relationship building as well in business Leaving a
safe foothold always … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/818-2/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span
class="screen-reader-text">Stuck is just most often just a
mindset</span> <span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2016-Feb-08 |
Neutral or criticize and its potential cost and rewards |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=813 |
Neutral or criticize and its potential cost and rewards Some thoughts of
the potential in all the people you meet and all the things they may create –
and what your actions can behaviour can create or prevent from appearing if
you are not thinking about it |
|
| 2016-Feb-01 |
The Power of Enthusiasm for others Enthusiasm is amazing. |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=809 |
The Power of Enthusiasm for others
Enthusiasm is amazing. It’s a great way to connect to other people.
It’s a great source of insight and awareness. It’s a great fun way to be
curious and take action. And it’s a great way to start most things.
Connect to your own Enthusiasm first – … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-of-enthusiasm-for-others-enthusiasm-is-amazing/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Power of Enthusiasm for others
Enthusiasm is amazing.</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Jan-25 |
Selfishly Generous |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=801 |
Selfishly Generous A lot of studies
show that generosity really pays of in health. long life. opportunities. The
list is long. What would make a difference for you? in summary: here is some
encouragement for you to help others This cast is yet again about being
generous to those around you, and for all kinds … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/selfishly-generous/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Selfishly Generous</span> <span
class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Jan-18 |
Tap into the larger conversation |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=796 |
Tap into the larger conversation.
The one in yourself, the one in your organisation and the ones going
on by your customers. Tap into that, align with it and you will find both a
great connection and great energy for taking initiative for the better. For
you and those around you. Listen for it … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/tap-into-the-larger-conversation/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Tap into the larger
conversation</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Jan-11 |
Listening Brands: How Data is Rewriting the Rules of Branding |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=779 |
Listening Brands, Mini-Audience –
always adapt your message to the individual to get the effect you want. The
Power of Data might be shining most clearing when it comes to Marketing but
its heading into HR and alot of other departments as well. Constant A/B
testing will prove so many thesis and anti-thesis wrong (or … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/listening-brands-how-data-is-rewriting-the-rules-of-branding/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Listening
Brands: How Data is Rewriting the Rules of Branding</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2016-Jan-04 |
When to Create Commitment first – Compliance second |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=774 |
When to Create Commitment first –
Compliance second Podcast Episode #93 Don’t limit yourself to get compliance
from people. It might feel like you are connecting around compliance . It
might feel secure and easy but you are losing out of what may be. For both
yourself and for them. For both current and future … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/when-to-create-commitment-first-compliance-second/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">When to Create Commitment first –
Compliance second</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Dec-28 |
Reflect over your time investments this year – What could you do
differently? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=769 |
Reflect over your time investments
this year – What could you do differently? Time is the one resouce you
never get back. It cannot be managed, only tasks and results can be
prioritized in how you invest your time. Thats why I believe that reflection
of how we spend our time, and if we’re … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/reflect-over-your-time-investments-this-year-what-could-you-do-differently/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Reflect over your time investments this
year – What could you do differently?</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Dec-21 |
Be the change you want – instead of assuming how you think things
“should” be |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=762 |
Be the change you want – Take
action instead of just assuming how you think things “should” be Be
the change you want to see in the world – quote Ghandi (not Dalai Lama that I
said in the cast, sorry) In this cast I talk about how easy we get stuck just
“assuming” … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/be-the-change-you-want-instead-of-assuming-how-you-think-things-should-be/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Be the change you want – instead of
assuming how you think things “should” be</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Dec-14 |
Un-awareness controls your options |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=758 |
Un-awareness controls your options
Help yourself and others to awareness, insights and transform those to
actions and awareness for those actions feedback. What you are unaware off
controls your options. Examples: * Personal Trainer – she asks me to lift
this heavy object, or to pull myself up a ledge. And then she observes …
<a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/un-awareness-controls-your-options/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Un-awareness controls your
options</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Dec-07 |
Trust |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=750 |
Trust – is in my humble opinion,
everything in Relationship Power. Without it you have nothing. With it you
both have a great, great help in most storms. So strong a thing – yet so
brittle, so easily shattered in the beginner of a meeting. And in a team trust
is absolutely essential for building … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/trust/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span
class="screen-reader-text">Trust</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Nov-30 |
Fragile Puzzle Parts of Life, relationships and results |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=739 |
Fragile Puzzle Parts of Life,
relationships and results All of us are building multiple puzzles. Take
a break to reflect on YOUR most important puzzle. NOT ALL pieces are
interchangeable. I’m for what manager tools always say. – Family First. If
you break those sometime fragile puzzle bits you can’t replace them. Others
you can. … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/fragile-puzzle-parts-of-life-relationships-and-results/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Fragile Puzzle Parts of Life, relationships
and results</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Nov-23 |
Generosity and its powers – helps yourself and others grow towards your
potential |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=733 |
You might have noticed that I have
Generosity as part of my intro and that its something I mention quite often.
That’s of course because I find it some important. Today I want to encourage
you to be generous to yourself. And I’m not talking about in a grab at the
expense of others way. … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/generosity-and-its-powers-helps-yourself-and-others-grow-towards-your-potential/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Generosity and its powers – helps yourself
and others grow towards your potential</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Nov-12 |
Recognizable You + lessons learned from Phil Pallen and Lauren Moore |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=727 |
Recognizable You + lessons learned
from Phil Pallen and Lauren Moore You want people to be able to
recognize your work as your work, and your clients to as well, recognize when
something can’t be your work. Phil Pallen is a Brand Strategist who held a
great talk at New Media Europe. I really … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/recognizable-you-lessons-learned-from-phil-pallen-and-lauren-moore/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Recognizable You + lessons learned from
Phil Pallen and Lauren Moore</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Nov-09 |
The Power of Pessimistic Thinking |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=723 |
The Power of Positive and Negative
Pessimistic Thinking. I believe we live in a “connection economy” like Seth
Godin started saying many years ago and nothing kills a connection with
someone like pessimism. Pessimism not only kills your own creativity also
kills the creativity of those around you. Positive thinking wears off,
negative thinking sticks … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-of-pessimistic-thinking/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Power of Pessimistic
Thinking</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Nov-02 |
Dreams, Goalsettings, Plans and Life transformations |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=716 |
Dreams, Goalsettings, Plans and
Life transformations Are you waiting for your dreams to come true and
transform your life? Dreams rarely come true, but your goals can forever
change your life.. You need to set goals in order turn your dreams into
reality. Into your new normal Dreams can inspire you, but goals can change …
<a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/dreams-goalsettings-plans-and-life-transformations/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Dreams,
Goalsettings, Plans and Life transformations</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Oct-26 |
log your work – be transparent on status – to yourself and others |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=710 |
Work always include reporting
status – even if your boss doesn’t specify it you will build a better
relationship with most managers by repeatedly report status and progress.
Both Good and Bad. Excellent news and no new status news. If you do this
routinely you will build trust and a great relationship I recommend you …
<a
href="http://RelationshipPower.com/a/log-your-work-be-transparent-on-status-to-yourself-and-others/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">log
your work – be transparent on status – to yourself and others</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Oct-19 |
Gratitude – share yours with others, let others share theirs in yours |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=704 |
Gratitude – share yours with
others, let others share theirs in yours Allow yourself to feel your
Gratidude for whatever it is. Why do you feel it? whats the smallest and
biggest grain of it? Allow others to enjoy their own using your expressed
gratitude. if you are given a compliment. accept it. say thanks …
<a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/gratitude-share-yours-with-others-let-others-share-theirs-in-yours/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Gratitude – share yours with others, let
others share theirs in yours</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Oct-12 |
Leadership is about getting results
and why to get them for yourself and others |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=699 |
Leadership is about getting
results and why to get them for yourself and others – not becoming
something else just because books or courses tell you to Anyone can become a
great leader. There is not any specific “type” or checkboxes to fill in order
to become it. there is of course cause and effect … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/leadership-is-about-getting-results-and-why-to-get-them-for-yourself-and-others/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Leadership
is about getting results and why to get them for yourself and
others</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Oct-05 |
The Power part in relationships and dating |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=688 |
Here are some novice thoughts (two
simple points) on the power part in relationships and dating. I do not think
I am the one to advice others on this, so I’m not really confortable with
sharing this episode but friends tell me thats exacly why I should share it.
I hope my newbie thoughts help … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-part-in-relationships-and-dating/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Power part in relationships and
dating</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Sep-28 |
Make it easy for the others to take action, not just you. Pushing it out
of your plate is not getting it done. |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=686 |
Make it easy for OTHERS to take
action, not just you. Pushing it out of your plate is not getting it
done. Its not the same thing as making progress. In this episode I talk
about mini-small things to help others, and how it affects yourself too I the
long run. I with share my … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/make-it-easy-for-the-others-to-take-action-not-just-you-pushing-it-out-of-your-plate-is-not-getting-it-done/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Make it easy for the others to take action,
not just you. Pushing it out of your plate is not getting it
done.</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Sep-21 |
Everything gives relationship status feedback – even a simple hair
coloring talk |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=678 |
Everything gives relationship
status feedback – even a simple hair coloring talk Here’s some more
personal examples of why bother with Relationship development at work. And
how we as owner of our own communication must be aware of how different mediums
of communication affects us. For example Real Life meetings with someone you
know … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/everything-gives-relationship-status-feedback-even-a-simple-hair-coloring-talk/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Everything gives relationship status
feedback – even a simple hair coloring talk</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Sep-14 |
Story Power – Choose your words with care, you are the author of your
life story |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=666 |
Story Power – Choose your words
with care, you are the author of your life story Story Power – what ARE you
telling yourself? I think it was stories that taught me that we’re all a part
of everything. No hero is 100% hero, no villain is 100% – its just hurt,
generosity and stories … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/story-power-choose-your-words-with-care-you-are-the-author-of-your-life-story/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Story Power – Choose your words with care,
you are the author of your life story</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Sep-07 |
Your Expectations are your responsibility – Own them! |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=662 |
Your Expectations are your
responsibility – Own them! No one other on this planet can fix your
feelings, only you It’s your job to speak clearly, including tone of voice,
body language, choices and actions. Be clear in your wishes. It’s your responsibility
to help others understand what YOU want them to get for … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/your-expectations-are-your-responsibility-own-them/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Your Expectations are your responsibility –
Own them!</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Aug-31 |
inner game – Energy and Connections worth exploring |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=653 |
Inner Games – Energy and Connection
exploration of worth I every now and then get the question “How do I start”
with “Connecting” to people? – Perhaps you’ve had a lot of work-colleagues
but no real “close” work-mates. Perhaps you’re appreciated for your results,
but having it hard to get that extra work-boost from your … <a
href="http://RelationshipPower.com/a/inner-game-energy-and-connections-worth-exploring/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">inner game – Energy and Connections worth
exploring</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Aug-28 |
Courage to Stretch – Courage to rest |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=649 |
Courage to Stretch – Courage to
rest I have decided, with help from friends and mentors to only continue
sharing a podcast every Monday. Right now I have been doing twice a week,
Monday and Thursdays. I have pushed myself to get here. I believe that is important
when stretching your comfort zone. But you will … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/courage-to-stretch-courage-to-rest/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Courage to Stretch – Courage to
rest</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Aug-24 |
The Power of Questions and the feelings and energy they create |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=643 |
The Power of
Questions and the feelings and energy they create My Greatest
strengths as a consultant is to be ignorant and ask a few questions. – Peter
Drucker I often get hired for my ability to archive results and
teach better ways to organizations. But I would say I … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-of-questions-and-the-feelings-and-energy-they-create/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Power of Questions and the feelings and
energy they create</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Aug-20 |
You can do Anything but not Everything |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=634 |
You can do Anything but not
Everything – Don’t spread yourself thin if you are an
“over-helper/over-archiver” those that matter will love you and your results
more when you say no to more things in favour of what you really want and
quality in that, for yourself and others help others but try to be … <a
href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/you-can-do-anything-but-not-everything/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">You can do Anything but not
Everything</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Aug-17 |
what KIND of person would you like to BECOME? TEDx talk by Camillla
TheFreeProject |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=630 |
what KIND of person would you like
to BECOME we are all in on a journey of change we all have everything we need
within us, we just let some of our inner need grow too strong sometimes,
taking over instead of harnessing all that is you into that which is best for
you. how … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/what-kind-of-person-would-you-like-to-become-tedx-talk-by-camillla-thefreeproject/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">what KIND of person would you like to
BECOME? TEDx talk by Camillla TheFreeProject</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Aug-13 |
Time Entwined – who is around you the most and how are they actively
helping? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=619 |
Time Entwined In summary for saving
time: I’m sure you’ve heard people talk about “you’re the average about the 5
or 10 people” you spend your time with. it goes both ways. Help others grow
and make sure you invest time in people who help you grow. “None of us
control time, we can only … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/time-entwined-who-is-around-you-the-most-and-how-are-they-actively-helping/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Time Entwined – who is around you the most
and how are they actively helping?</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2015-Aug-10 |
Imagination – the power of what MAY be |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=613 |
Imagination – the power of what MAY
be. I think this is one of the most energy giving activities that exists.
What we all may be. What YOU MAY BECOME. What new “state of
effect/process/whatever” you co-workers could share with you in the future.
Imagination AND awareness is almost everything you need. What you are … <a
href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/imagination-the-power-of-what-may-be/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Imagination – the power of what MAY
be</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Aug-06 |
Tribute from me to Cliff Ravenscraft and his amazing Podcasting A to Z
course |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=609 |
This is a tribute from me to Cliff
Ravenscraft and his amazing Podcasting A to Z course that you can find at
PodcastAnswerMan.com. I also talk some very quick about why I created the
testimonial – basically self awareness, taking actions in your life to help
people you care about, and extending your comfortzone to … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/tribute-from-me-to-cliff-ravenscraft-and-his-amazing-podcasting-a-to-z-course/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Tribute from me to Cliff Ravenscraft and
his amazing Podcasting A to Z course</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Aug-03 |
Everything in your life has a game window – what game are you playing
right now? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=593 |
Everything in your life has a game
window * Know what game you are playing * Know when it’s time to switch game
rules .. or perhaps someone around you already HAS switched the ruleset
without saying so? unaware or intentionally? * No game last forever.
Time is always limited, use it when it gives … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/everything-in-your-life-has-a-game-window-what-game-are-you-playing-right-now/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Everything
in your life has a game window – what game are you playing right
now?</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Jul-30 |
Personal Why Examples – Complex Processes on a global scale – Revenue
driving Labels in many thousands of shops all around the globe |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=585 |
Personal Why Examples – Complex
Processes on a global scale – Revenue driving Labels in many thousands of
shops all around the globe I am sharing some of my “Personal Why
Examples” of benefits of Relationship Power at work. Its not free, its not instant
reward – but in the end I think you … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/personal-why-examples-complex-processes-on-a-global-scale-revenue-driving-labels-in-many-thousands-of-shops-all-around-the-globe/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Personal Why Examples – Complex Processes
on a global scale – Revenue driving Labels in many thousands of shops all
around the globe</span> <span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Jul-27 |
We all need to bond to something |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=574 |
We all need to bond, from our first
ever second to all of them throughout life. Especially when doing new,
insecure things. I personally believe introverts also needs this. We just
bond to different things. When I was young I was going thru a nightmare for
years (from some perspectives, other parts where OK) and … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/we-all-need-to-bond-to-something/"
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| 2015-Jul-23 |
Teambuilding story – Why Bother with Relationship Power? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=543 |
Teambuilding story – Why Bother
with Relationship Power? I guess we all have to find out our own reasons for
leading the way we lead, but here’s some thoughts about why I behave like I
do. I love taking the initiative. I love helping others. I love inspiring
myself and other to courage. I also … <a href=
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Relationship Power?</span> <span
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|
| 2015-Jul-20 |
How to leave the table when there is not enough love coming from it |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=538 |
How to leave the table when there
is not enough love coming from it? I believe in sharing the knowledge, power,
compassion, courage, generosity and most stuff around that but there can be
no power of any kind without saying no when you feel its required. But its
also very important to know when its … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/how-to-leave-the-table-when-there-is-not-enough-love-coming-from-it/"
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"screen-reader-text">How to leave the table when there is not
enough love coming from it</span> <span class=
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| 2015-Jul-16 |
Dont Fix it if it aint broken |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=541 |
Dont Fix it if it aint broken –
listen for what others REALLY want fixing – otherwise its just about you, and
that is rarely the best way to build Relation Power with anyone. Its
important to let go of our own ideas. Even if you know you’re helping its very
easily that we come … <a href=
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class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
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| 2015-Jul-13 |
Guessing takes energy |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=536 |
Guessing takes energy from
Relationship Power. Don’t make others guess what you do for work, and who you
do it for and primarily what THEY get out of it. Also aim stand out by a
unique answer not just the same lull like everyone else. Yes that means
more work now thinking the answer up … <a href=
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"more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Guessing takes energy</span> <span
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| 2015-Jul-09 |
The Power of Rest. Sleep more – Archive more |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=530 |
The Power of rest continuned. My
podcast recommendation for today: Michael Hyatt Michael Hyatt is talking
about the power of rest. Its so important to get sleep and exercise.. Michael
is doing a way better job than I did half a year ago in explaining the
benefits so please go listen to him and take … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-of-rest-sleep-more-archive-more/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Power of Rest. Sleep more – Archive
more</span> <span
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| 2015-Jul-06 |
How Full is your bucket? Powerfull words and energy |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=496 |
How full is your bucket? Be mindful
of the words you use internally to yourself as well as to others, Words are
more powerful than we think of. Try to give energy to those around you and
yourself every day Book Recommendation: How Full Is Your Bucket?
http://strengths.gallup.com/114079/Full-Bucket.aspx |
|
| 2015-Jul-02 |
Gamification at work |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=498 |
Gamification at work if you
simplified your work into just a few rules… What would those be? Just
the top ten most important things and ways to archive them? I understand that
life and work is complex things, but try to zoom out by making a game out of
it. How would the metrics be … <a href=
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"more-link">Continue reading <span class=
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| 2015-Jun-29 |
Fan the flame – awaken the spark |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=492 |
Quite often I find myself thinking
“oh there’s a ember glowing under there, should i help ignite it? Help light
the passion?” Its my own curiosity mixed with my deep-rooted urge to help
others grow, help others into insight, help others to get rest and regeneration,
help others to passion. When you hear something touch … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/fan-the-flame-awaken-the-spark/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
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| 2015-Jun-25 |
Everything Gives Feedback – Boardgames are excellent examples |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=487 |
Everything Gives Feedback –
Boardgames are excellent examples for becomming aware of your own patterns
and figure out how to transform those insight into “in real life” Learning is
a choice. You can learn from whatever you are doing. The only time we dont
learn is when whe decide not to. I love board games … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/everything-gives-feedback-boardgames-are-excellent-examples/"
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"screen-reader-text">Everything Gives Feedback – Boardgames are
excellent examples</span> <span
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| 2015-Jun-22 |
That Other Way often works Just Fine – Continued |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=481 |
That Other Way often works Just Fine – Continued Some listeners requested
I add a few more thoughts to a previous cast since they said the
original really helped them connect and get more accomplished by doing so. So
I hope these thoughts will help you and others as well. |
|
| 2015-Jun-18 |
Help others without expecting anything back |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=477 |
Help others just because you can
and want to. I belive in a world of helping others for no other reason than
the strong should help those they can. And we all have som strong area and no
one has only strong areas. But its important that we help for our own
reasons, without expecting … <a href=
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back</span> <span
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|
| 2015-Jun-15 |
the balance between kindness to one self and stretching one self |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=467 |
Last Thursday I released something
sub-par. It was my podcast on team-building that WE feeling. And the thing
is, i don’t even know if most of you noticed that the outro was cut off a few
seconds and that I myself didn’t think I added “that much value” to you that
I aim to do. … <a href=
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and stretching one self</span> <span
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| 2015-Jun-11 |
Teambuilding – building a WE feeling |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=464 |
Building a team isnt just about the
big actions to form it, its also the very small repetetive gestures that
affect the “we/us feeling” the most. Dont underestimate them, make sure you
include small things every day instead of waiting for that big team kick off
that will “solve it all” … And help other … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/teambuilding-building-a-we-feeling/"
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feeling</span> <span
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| 2015-Jun-08 |
Easy for you might not be easy for others |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=442 |
Easy for you might not be easy for
others. Just because its easy for you, dont take for granted that its easy
for others. Look for the Positive intent! It might not be due to disrespect
its “not finished”. They’re “not getting it”. Its not done “your” way. It
could just be plainly due to … <a href=
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"screen-reader-text">Easy for you might not be easy for
others</span> <span
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| 2015-Jun-04 |
HEAL ME plz plz |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=431 |
We can learn more about ourselves
using anything. I’m a computer gamer and love healing people but you know
what? most often its the ones that ask the most for HEALS that doesn’t learn
to avoid the need in the first place. And once your out of power to keep
helping them they blame you … <a href=
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"more-link">Continue reading <span
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|
| 2015-Jun-01 |
People AND Results |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=440 |
You need Results in order to grow
power. Otherwise, eventually, the powerful people will not invest their time
and other resourses with you. Help others get there results done. Help them
complete their missions. Their plans. Their delivery promises to their
managers or themselves. Doesn’t have to be much or taking much from you.
Could … <a
href="http://RelationshipPower.com/a/people-and-results/"
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"screen-reader-text">People AND Results</span> <span
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| 2015-May-28 |
Embrace Reality – small progress is progress too – help others see theirs |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=436 |
Most of the successful people I
know say it’s mostly due to small repetitive progress. Don’t wait for that
huge one thing that will make ALL the difference. Start doing anything,
however small, TODAY! And help others see the value of what they are
already doing, even in the smallest of things. If you … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/todo-embrace-reality-small-progress-is-progress-too-help-others-see-theirs/"
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Reality – small progress is progress too – help others see
theirs</span> <span class=
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| 2015-May-25 |
Unmet needs and your expectations, only you can own your own expectations |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=428 |
Unmet needs and your expectations
Unmet needs and your expectations. You have to own your own expectations,
because no one else but you can give you want you one. No one else has walked
in your shoes for the length of time you have. We all have un-met needs, but
when those repeatedly carry over … <a href=
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can own your own expectations</span> <span class=
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| 2015-May-21 |
When to talk and when to not.. Choose active listening to build power
with awareness |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=423 |
When to talk and when to not…
Choose active listening to build power with awareness Listening is, according
to my humble opinion, by far the most effective Relationship Building action
you can take. One of the times when it can be really good to just shut up is
when you’re invited to a demo of … <a href=
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to talk and when to not.. Choose active listening to build power with
awareness</span> <span class=
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| 2015-May-18 |
The Power of Positivity within – to yourself and others |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=415 |
The Power of Positivity within – to
yourself and others Be positive. As much as possible. Manager Tools,
of whom I am a big fan say “start with 3 months positive feedback” BEFORE
going into what can be perceived as negative. Positivity is the only real way
to encourage someone to want to listen, … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-of-positivity-within-to-yourself-and-others/"
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yourself and others</span> <span
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| 2015-May-14 |
Fear is natural – Showing vulnerability will connect you |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=405 |
Fear is natural –
Showing vulnerability will connect you – to yourself and to others Honor your
fear. Listen to it. Trust it. But do what you can not to let it define your
reality. Fears unvoiced often are much worse remaining shadows then when we
talk about them and illuminating them. ..And … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/fear-is-natural-showing-vulnerability-will-connect-you/"
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will connect you</span> <span
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| 2015-May-11 |
Everything decays – What actions do you take for what effect? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=399 |
Todays episode is more
philosophical in nature than most of my previous ones. I hope you enjoy it
and that it helps you shift perspective, encouraging you to take action today
– For a better future for yourself and those close to you soon. This is from
a “positive outlook” its not about surrendering to … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/everything-decays-what-actions-do-you-take-for-what-effect/"
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"screen-reader-text">Everything decays – What actions do you
take for what effect?</span> <span
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|
| 2015-May-04 |
What Game Are you Playing? Learn the Rules Beyond it |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=394 |
What Game Are you Playing? Learn the Rules Beyond it |
|
| 2015-Apr-27 |
Dare to be a beginner again |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=390 |
Dare to be a beginner again. You
will find you inspire others AND become clearer to others on what you excel
at by being clear of what you know very well and what you are a beginner at.
That you also show as en example by taking action connects us all on a deeper
level … <a href=
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| 2015-Apr-23 |
Seek the Energy – WHO wants an effect? Let them drive it! |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=373 |
Use the energy where it is heading. Let the
one who wants the effect drive it, instead of you risk forgetting trying to
be helpful between tasks. |
|
| 2015-Apr-20 |
Your Time and its effect on Your Relationship Power at work |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=380 |
Your Time and giving it away – its
effect on Your Relationship Power at work Take a minute for yourself.
Think back on the past week. Who do you regularly spend your time with, spend
your time ON? Do they most commonly boost you? Encourage you in your
endeavours? Assist you in exploring new … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/your-time-and-its-effect-on-your-relationship-power-at-work/"
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"screen-reader-text">Your Time and its effect on Your
Relationship Power at work</span> <span
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|
| 2015-Apr-13 |
Lowering the resistance to communication from others |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=371 |
Take the Lead. Take the initiative.
Greet or share a helping hand to those you pass in the corridor. This will
lower the barrier when you OR they need something next time. Perhaps try to
make 2015 a more generous year to those around you? Any small steps help,
doesnt have to be anything big … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/lowering-the-resistance-to-communication-from-others/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Lowering the resistance to communication
from others</span> <span
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|
| 2015-Apr-06 |
Accepting ourselves – so we can accept others easier |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=363 |
Accepting ourselves – so we can
accept others easier. This I believe is one of the first step of
embracing the relationship with another person. It starts and ends with
ourselves. It’s not always easy but be kind to yourself first, listen to
yourself first and take small steps of kindness towards yourself and you
might … <a href=
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ourselves – so we can accept others easier</span> <span
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| 2015-Mar-30 |
Encourage others to be their kind of hero |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=359 |
Encourage others to be their kind
of hero I love fantasy heroes. I love a great story. I think most of us do.
Myself I love reading and seeing films like Lord of the Rings. A lonesome
figure bearing the responsible to save something bigger than themselves. And
don’t you just love when you realize … <a href=
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|
| 2015-Mar-23 |
Adjust your steps but keep taking them |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=350 |
Adjust your steps but keep taking
them Should I take smaller or bigger actions? If you accomplish most of what
you set out to do, take bigger steps If you find yourself not happy to all
you’ve accomplished sometime you need to take smaller steps for a while.
Another way of saying it is that … <a href=
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| 2015-Mar-16 |
Yes and No – its Power and its Dangers |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=343 |
Yes/No The power of saying yes to
yourself is awesome. The power of saying Yes continuously to your Boss – and
deliver on it is amazing So what’s the danger then? Be aware of when you use
it. “With great power comes great responsibility” Yes/No can be interpreted
as very harsh. The side effect of … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/yes-and-no-its-power-and-its-dangers/"
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"screen-reader-text">Yes and No – its Power and its
Dangers</span> <span
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|
| 2015-Mar-09 |
Be Slow to Judge – great blogpost by Michael Hyatt |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=335 |
Be Slow to Judge – great blogpost
by Michael Hyatt We often project our own issues. Be careful that you are
talking about future benefits for the person you are talking to. Not your own
projections. If we often judge or criticise other people that speaks volumes
more about ourself than our targets. This is … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/be-slow-to-judge-great-blogpost-by-michael-hyatt/"
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Michael Hyatt</span> <span
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|
| 2015-Mar-02 |
Why and what is important for you..beyond yourself? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=328 |
Why and what is important for you
more than your own results? Please give yourself a minute to ponder on WHY
you want to archive what you want to get done today. Whats in it for you?
Deep down.. Now please extend that feeling into something that is beyond
yourself.. and invest just five minutes … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/why-and-what-is-important-for-you-beyond-yourself/"
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"screen-reader-text">Why and what is important for you..beyond
yourself?</span> <span
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|
| 2015-Feb-23 |
Explore your own playfulness |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=301 |
Explore your own playfulness. That will give you energy that your
relationship will share. What is having fun for you? Where do you have fun
and what happens to those you meet there? Can you get more of that in other
parts of your life as well? What is having fun for those around you? |
|
| 2015-Feb-16 |
Embrace the data all around – its ALL about the people |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=303 |
Embrace the data all around you.
WHILE you are at the meeting be at the meeting. Meet the people and their
senses, attitudes, body language etc. Don’t just get the meeting “done” –
You’re there for the result AFTER the meeting your there to meet people. Not
to check it off your calendar. That thinking … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/embrace-the-data-all-around-its-all-about-the-people/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Embrace the data all around – its ALL about
the people</span> <span
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|
| 2015-Feb-09 |
Systems beyond systems beyond systems |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=298 |
There is always systems beyond
systems beyond systems. Thus there is harmony AND turmoil inside the person
your are talking to right now. Some of it comes from systems you will never
see, but affecting here and now. Likewise its inside you affecting them.
Listen to to them. Accept them. Only then you fully go … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/systems-beyond-systems-beyond-systems/"
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systems</span> <span
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| 2015-Feb-02 |
Inner game of self isolation |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=291 |
Be happy and impressed by other
skills and archivements, but their success in no way diminishes yours. If you
enjoy their happiness for their sake, they might like you more. If you put
them above you – you actually distance yourself from them and that is not
relationship building. Try not to judge yourself to … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/inner-game-of-self-isolation/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Inner game of self isolation</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Jan-26 |
That other way often works just fine |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=282 |
Open your mind to that other way of
getting things done Often we believe our way is the best way, missing the
point that by doing so we lose a lot of power and potential within our
colleagues. Not to mention that you build better relationship by encouraging
people to do things their way not … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/that-other-way-often-works-just-fine/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">That other way often works just
fine</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2015-Jan-19 |
The Power in names – yours and others |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=270 |
The Power in names – yours and
others How often do you think about the power of names? Yours and others. Do
you make it easy for others to use your name for the best of you and them? Do
take note of others name to show your respect and recognition of them?
Great … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-in-names-yours-and-others/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Power in names – yours and
others</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2015-Jan-12 |
Embrace Your reality – Lessons learned after 25 episodes |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=268 |
Wow 25th episode is here! Part of
embracing reality is to do your own internal recap and feedback for yourself
and I thought I’d share mine, in case those thoughts help anyone else. Please
note that todays podcast will be my own thoughts and processes thus be more
deep into me than what might help … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/embrace-your-reality-lessons-learned-after-25-episodes-or-anything-new/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Embrace Your reality – Lessons learned
after 25 episodes</span> <span
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|
| 2015-Jan-05 |
See The Individual – dont generalize |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=252 |
It’s human to make assumptions. “I
have met people for your firm before, your school before, your country
before, your continent before.”.. It’s an easy thing to do, and I’ve done it
myself too many times myself. I am sure that most of the time when my Team
has over-archived its primarily because I have … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/see-the-individual-dont-generalize/"
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"screen-reader-text">See The Individual – dont
generalize</span> <span
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|
| 2014-Dec-29 |
Successful communication is ALL on you |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=254 |
Successful communication is ALL on
you Successful communication is all on you – Which means if you don’t
get the results and actions you want when talking to someone you have to take
the responsibility to investigate what happens in the recipient when you talk
to them, it doesn’t matter what you know you … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/successful-communication-is-all-on-you/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Successful communication is ALL on
you</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
|
| 2014-Dec-22 |
The Power of believing Others can improve |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=246 |
The Power of believing Others can
improve Please take time to listen to the great TED talk “The Power of
believing that you can improve” by Carol Dweck where she talks about the
great result you can have when you help people see that they can improve. Help
them see that its a huge difference … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-of-believing-others-can-improve/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Power of believing Others can
improve</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Dec-15 |
Your Calendars Relationship Power and other Effects |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=236 |
Your Calendars Relationship Power
and other effects on you and those around you. Are you aware of the real
power of a shared calendar? Experiment with yours until you get the effect
you want. Do not leave your calendar for other to fill. Make a choice for how
YOU want to get the most out … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/your-calendars-relationship-power-and-other-effects/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Your Calendars Relationship Power and other
Effects</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Dec-08 |
First Impressions and its longlasting power |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=226 |
First impressions and the lasting
power of it First impressions last longer than most of oss think about. You
probably heard it before, but do you actually make use of its power in your
daily life? Action to take: Try to activly think and act
the first seconds you meet some-one new. … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/first-impressions-and-its-longlasting-power/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">First Impressions and its longlasting
power</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Dec-01 |
Better a small step today than waiting for perfect |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=214 |
Help someone today just because you
can. It doesn’t have to be anything big. Often I find that people wait
for the perfect moment to help that will make a big impact. Or wait and see
if the help they think they can provide will make a big difference.. I
suggest also trying to help … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/better-a-small-step-today-than-waiting-for-perfect/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Better a small step today than waiting for
perfect</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Nov-24 |
Listener Feedback – Alternative Cost |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=211 |
Thank you so much for your listener
feedback! I am sorry that I said that we have to be perfect when sending
things out to the web without explaining myself properly. What I meant to
say, but didnt since I got on a tantrum-detour, was that it’s the recipient
reaction that determines the outcome. Most … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/listener-feedback-alternative-cost/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Listener Feedback – Alternative
Cost</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Nov-24 |
Why do you want power to help others? + Plan for December business |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=207 |
Ask yourself Why you need
Relationship Power? We are all different. Different things matter differently
to us. This doesnt have to matter to you just because it does to me.
What would matter to you? Relationship Power is a great way to help others.
Sometimes we need to stand up for those we believe in. … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/why-do-you-want-power-to-help-others-plan-for-december-business/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Why
do you want power to help others? + Plan for December business</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Nov-17 |
Be an Opportunity Maker |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=202 |
Connect others! Help them
with whats important to them. You never know where this will lead them ..thus
and you… The reward can be enormous for everyone. This is the “opportunity
cost” I compared not taking action with in my previous episode Alternative
Cost… but Kare does a much much better job at explaing this … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/be-an-opportunity-maker/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span
class="screen-reader-text">Be an Opportunity Maker</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Nov-10 |
Polarizing People towards you – Awareness and its power |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=190 |
Are you aware of your polarisation
effect in different situations and environments? Do you know what you want
when for which effect? Action to take: – Decide where you want to be
in each environment. Do you want to act to become more neutral?Do you want to
act to really find that outlaying 1%? |
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| 2014-Nov-03 |
Alternative Cost |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=182 |
Relationship Power at work – What’s
your alternative cost for the things you are thinking about or not thinking
about right now? to ANY action or in-action you take there is always an Cost
and alternative Cost involved. The cost for that road not taken is near
infinite.. as could the rewards for that action … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/alternative-cost/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Alternative Cost</span> <span
class= "meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Oct-27 |
The Power of all the Circles around you – people! |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=175 |
The Power of all the Circles around
you In this episode I want to help you focus on the people you most commonly
don’t go to lunch with at your work. With the purpose to explore why that is
and how it accepts the power in your relationship, because you do have a
relationship with … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-of-all-the-circles-around-you-people/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Power of all the Circles around you –
people!</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Oct-20 |
The Power of Rest and some inspiration why you should experiment to get
yours often |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=169 |
The Power of Rest and some
inspiration why you should experiment to get yours often How do you know
you’re rested? How do you know you’re at your full capacity? Action to take
this week: Try listening for your own “rest-state” Do you feel rested?
Experiment with what makes you sleep better, wake up feeling … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-of-rest-and-some-inspiration-why-you-should-experiment-to-get-yours-often/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Power of Rest and some inspiration why
you should experiment to get yours often</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Oct-13 |
The Art of Listening |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=162 |
The Art of Listening. “When you
talk you are only repeating what you already know. When you listen you may
learn something” – Dalai Lama We all get very preoccupied with ourselves
every now and then. In some situations more than others. Which of those situations
are most commonly happening for you? For me, in … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-art-of-listening/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span
class="screen-reader-text">The Art of Listening</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Oct-13 |
Make others bloom |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=156 |
This episodes focus on some of the
reasons on why and how you could help make others bloom. It could be as
simple as taking five minutes extra just to figure out whats important to
them without any gain for you whatsoever other than just because you want to
help. Help them create commitment for … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/make-others-bloom/" class=
"more-link">Continue reading <span
class="screen-reader-text">Make others bloom</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Oct-06 |
The Power of Silent feedback |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=144 |
This podcast will help you explore
the silent feedback that is always around you and how you can harness this to
your advantage. We will also talk about the fact that you are never ever in
neutral mode with anyone you meet. You are Either increasing your
relationship with them or diminishing it, there is … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-of-silent-feedback/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Power of Silent feedback</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Oct-06 |
Relationship Power at work – Appearance don’t tell the full story |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=142 |
Relationship Power at work –
Appearance don’t tell the full story We all start by judging the book by its
cover, but with self-awareness we can catch ourselves doing it and thus
connect way deeper with the one we are talking to. And the opposite, we can,
if we accept that others do this to … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/relationship-power-at-work-appearance-dont-tell-the-full-story/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Relationship Power at work – Appearance
don’t tell the full story</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Oct-04 |
Know thyself – we are abit of everything + treat your directs as
volunteers |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=140 |
RelationshipPower at work – Know
thyself. We are abit of everything Know thyself. Your relationship with
yourself is the most important one you have. Some experiences make part of me
go into mental shutdown. is it the same for you? In what areas are this and
how often? Be kind to yourself and try to … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/know-thyself-we-are-abit-of-everything-treat-your-directs-as-volunteers/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class= "screen-reader-text">Know
thyself – we are abit of everything + treat your directs as
volunteers</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Oct-03 |
Your Reputation and the trust you bring before you |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=138 |
Relationship Power at work – Your
Reputation and the trust you bring before you even meet someone for the first
time. Are you aware what people find about you online? What you yourself type
into all those emails you send daily and the longterm result of those? Also
recommends Rachel Botsman TEDtalk actions to take: … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/your-reputation-and-the-trust-you-bring-before-you/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Your Reputation and the trust you bring
before you</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Oct-03 |
RelationshipPower is all about Integrity. Your Integrity! |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=130 |
RelationshipPower is all about
Integrity. Your Integrity is important! We explore some of what that means to
me and you as a manager. We explore being uncomfortable, and that we can all
learn new things if we can just allow our-self to be uncomfortable for a
while. if we practice, we get better. What new … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/relationshippower-is-all-about-integrity-your-integrity/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">RelationshipPower is all about Integrity.
Your Integrity!</span> <span
class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Oct-01 |
The Power of your bodylanguage |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=118 |
Everything you do, say and don’t do
sends signals on multiple levels and multiple channels at once. Are you aware
that your body either hinders or benefits that your message to get through
and creates the the effect you want for the one you are
talking too? How much are you using your body to set you in the … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-of-your-bodylanguage/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Power of your bodylanguage</span>
<span class="meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Sep-29 |
The Power of choosing yourself by disconnecting + Necessary Endings |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=100 |
Relationship Power at work – The
Power of choosing yourself by disconnecting and other Necessary Endings This
episode is dedicated to help you explore where you stand most commonly on
disconnect and saying no to things that does not help you get where you
want to be. Actions to take: Think about what parts … <a
href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/the-power-of-choosing-yourself-by-disconnecting-necessary-endings/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">The Power of choosing yourself by
disconnecting + Necessary Endings</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Sep-26 |
Relationship Power at work – The power of vulnerability + Handshake |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=95 |
Make others feel worth of Love and
Belonging. Be kind to yourself, that the only way you can sustain kindness to
others. Help yourself feel “you are enough” and pass that feeling to others
whenever you can. Be kind to yourself. Set healthy boundaries. Say no when
you mean no, and only yes when you … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/relationship-power-at-work-the-power-of-vulnerability-handshake/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">Relationship Power at work – The power of
vulnerability + Handshake</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Sep-22 |
RelationshipPower at Work Episode001 What is Relationship Power and how
does it help you? |
http://RelationshipPower.com/a/?p=91 |
My definition of Relationship Power
is that thing that you earn, not the same thing as Role Power or Authority
Power that you get by your position. Relationship Power is that unique
connection you can, if you want to, grow with each individual you meet, or
that you reach by your reputation. Why do I … <a href=
"http://RelationshipPower.com/a/relationshippower-at-work-episode001-what-is-relationship-power-and-how-does-it-help-you/"
class="more-link">Continue reading <span class=
"screen-reader-text">RelationshipPower at Work Episode001 What
is Relationship Power and how does it help you?</span> <span class=
"meta-nav">→</span></a> |
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| 2014-Sep-14 |
Relationship Power Podcast Episode 001 Starting up |
https://gaming.libsyn.com/relationship-power-podcast-episode-001-starting-up |
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